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commentr/StutterMar 9, 2024
1 points

Exactly! I tell myself, “Just slow down, stop freaking out, and talk normally!” Of course that only ever makes it worse!...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2024
2 points

I think sometimes most of our stutter is just like a self fulfilling prophecy. You think you're going to stutter so that creates fear and nervousness leading to stutter. Obviously every individual has...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 7, 2024
2 points

Great analysis. It is important to see the trigger factor not only as negative but as a whole. Negative, positive or neutral are just labels. Negative emotions are percieve as negative because of th...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
2 points

knowing what I know now I regret not punching my bullies in the teeth. good for you on that one. I am more trained than all the kids who work in my department and management treats me like I know les...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingEmployment & CareerHope & Motivation+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
1 points

I have seen improvements in other social areas of my life, but I have not been able to translate that into presentations because I do not do them often enough. Thank you, I appreciate your response!...

School & WorkCoping & Advocacy
School & Academic LifeMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
5 points

I think there is a misunderstanding here. I USED to stutter a lot. Would block every sentence, for about 10-30 seconds each time. Mostly overcame it through a combination of rigorous speech therapy...

Therapy & ProfessionalCoping & Advocacy
Therapy ExperiencesMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
2 points

Elon Musk stutter on stage, but that doesn't hinder him from delivering presentations. Stuttering during a presentation is fine as long as you embrace it. Don't let fear control your life – pursue you...

School & WorkCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Public SpeakingMindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
2 points

I like the cut off your jib. My fluency has drastically improved over the years and a bit of stoicism and acceptance has improved my confidence and attitude. My career has been a struggle because I fe...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-PerceptionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
1 points

The best thing to do is not to pay it any more attention. The less you think about it, the better things will go. You must accept that you will stutter and that it will pass, probably smoother than yo...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
3 points

Everbody is unique, and the way you speak, slow and measured, is what makes it unique. You seem to have achieved so much and the only way you can move is forward - You just need to get out of your own...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
3 points

You are inspiring, regardless of your self-doubts. Everyone has individual speech patterns. There are always differences in unique intonation and pacing. You could just accept your speech or join a ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shiftEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
12 points

So few humans stutter and most of them are men so it's a fact of this life. It's actually interesting to me to see how men handle it because men tend to handle life's challenges in all sorts of ways t...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterMar 4, 2024
30 points

I didn't feel anything.

I didn't feel anything. I went to driving school today. And the instructor asked me my name and i stuttered for atleast 4-5 second while saying my name and then the instructor completed my name for me...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterMar 3, 2024
6 points

Are affirmations helpful?

Are affirmations helpful? do you think affirmations or a change in mindset can end stuttering or somehow reduce it? if yes, what affirmations would you recommend? I have been saying in my head "I spea...

Coping & AdvocacyMeds & Substances
Mindset shiftHelpful Med Outcomes
postr/StutterMar 2, 2024
48 points

Why Care?

Why Care? I joined this sub because I’ve pretty severely stuttered all of my life, but so many people on here are so absolutely negative that it just constantly feeds itself. Stuttering is not an issu...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2024
6 points

This is something I've experienced first hand. It's all about stopping giving a fuk and realizing you only have one life....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMar 2, 2024
28 points

Though STUTTERING makes us stumble and doubt (1) always value yourself, (2) make room for self-appreciation, and (3) find reasons to love yourself

Though STUTTERING makes us stumble and doubt (1) always value yourself, (2) make room for self-appreciation, and (3) find reasons to love yourself ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2024
2 points

So your new mindset was all about acknowledging that normal people have small disfluencies and that you shouldn’t strive to be perfect in your speech? Was that all?...

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2024
4 points

Depends a lot in the severity I suppose so I can’t speak for everyone. But I have improved my stuttering by ALOT trough a different mindset, talking in a deeper voice, pacing and articulating myself a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftSituational Variability
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2024
4 points

I don't think acceptance and working through your problems are mutually exclusive. You can accept that you have a stutter now and still work on improving/fixing it. I don't think you have to necessari...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingMindset shift