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Thanks for posting. I've been trying to improve myself in all aspects of life including accepting my stutter. All of the podcasts make perfect sense. I'm going to try to put it in practice. It won't ...

Girl. I bet you look clean and fantastic, and I guarantee your SO would love to fix that and get you all messy ;). Though easier said than done, I bet your SO thinks you look fantastic and isn't tur...

It isn't always about my SO so much as it is about me not loving myself and getting myself down. I have a wonderful SO and an amazing best friend (who also stutters) and they are both very supporitve....

Thank you for sharing your personal experience. I know for a fact it is in my head since the opinion of my SO in terms of my sexiness is what I care about and even though he reassures me I've seen vid...

He's never said anything about me not being sexy, this is all my own opinion of myself. I know it doesn't bother him but I hate the sound of my own voice so I dunno. Thanks for your kind words, means ...

It definitely is me, no question about, my SO has been really cool about it and the one time I mentioned being turned off by it he said I was nuts, so please no hate for him. This is just me being bot...

Sounds like you are the one feeling the bad vibes, and not your SO. They chose you so its pretty unrealistic they actually gets turn off by your stutter. MIght be turnd off by you getting turned off t...

I think people who are turned off by a stutter are likely to be relatively shallow, and not at a place in their life where they could access the deep compassion you need to offer in order to have a go...

it's not really something you can snap into, that's why taking little actionable steps every day is the best way i've seen to change how you feel about yourself and stuttering....

I was feeling just like you when i was around 23, then i went to a seminar on stuttering. It helped me realized that first, i have to accept that i stutter, second, stuttering is not that important to...

>I've been stuttering for as long as I can remember and my speech and feeling towards it is hitting rock bottom. I do not enjoy life anymore. I often wake up thinking "great, another day, another s...

I'm about the same age, and I take a similar approach. It was gradual for me. I knew I had to stop caring, but actually stopping that took some time. It doesn't matter what anybody thinks. Some peop...

Hopefully it just gets better. I'm 38 and I'm way more fluent than I was 15 years ago. I also stopped caring as much about what other people think and I think that that helped, but of course it's no...

You don't become used to embarrassment, at least I don't think, you accept and attempt to conquer. Don't be a slave to your voice and disfluencies. I have a feeling you're feeling so down because youh...

Why do you consider it embarrassment? Sure, people will notice, and some might get annoyed or something, but biggest impression that people will end up having is your attitude. Try not to give a shit....

My first and last post here

My first and last post here New university making new friends, long phone calls to friends from home, trying and succeeding in picking up girls, leading and directing people, even getting known for my...

Awesome putting yourself out there! Sometimes embracing the crowd makes it better. In college I told my professors I had a stutter, and it made presentations and speaking aloud much easier. ...

Thank you. And I worded that wrong cause I do know I very well will be stuck with this my whole life. I just want to get it to manageable. Not to where I can't say a word or talk. I'm a social guy and...

I find that it can change a lot over time which words/letters I have problems with. But your problem seems to be something else, fundamentally: >I'm going into the military in 9 months and want t...

you will get over it because there is no other option. your own way to get over it may be by learning every trick and technique to never block again, it may be by being open and accepting about that ...