Thank you for sharing your personal experience. I know for a fact it is in my head since the opinion of my SO in terms of my sexiness is what I care about and even though he reassures me I've seen videos where I'm talking and just seeing my own face and knowing that it is what other people see... Urrrnnggg. Great job on your presentation, and I'm glad you're confident enough to be outgoing, something I'm working on and your post is definitely inspiring.