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postr/StutterOct 27, 2024
19 points

Please Help Me

Please Help Me I am 15 and i’m just so fucking sick and tired of my stutter. i can’t do so many things. people look at me weird. getting a gf is impossible. i just need help. I know this sound dumb b...

Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Advice RequestsHelplessness & AgencyBlocks & Stoppages
postr/StutterOct 26, 2024
30 points

How can I ever get a girlfriend with this condition?

How can I ever get a girlfriend with this condition? I've come to realize that it would be SO much easier to get a girlfriend if I could just... stop stuttering. I have to dart my eyes around to prope...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
postr/StutterOct 26, 2024
10 points

How to get over the fear and awkwardness?

How to get over the fear and awkwardness? I am 21 years old and I stutter. But I don't speak much in front of other people. When asked a question, I just pretend to not know the answer or say a wrong,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2024
23 points

Grass is always greener. I wouldn’t ask for a new challenge personally. I work with visibly disabled people, and they aren’t necessarily treated better. They are infantilized like us if not more. I ...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2024
5 points

I would select any of the immediate visual types of disabilities. As we all know, stammering is a hidden disability. It rears its ugly head when we start to talk. I personally hate with a strong and e...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2024
2 points

Yeah but things like these made my stutter even more serious and lead me down the drain to Anxiety issues ( I still take pills ) . Glad that it worked out for you , have a good journey ahead thats all...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterOct 24, 2024
14 points

Got My 8th Rejected from job due to stammering

Got My 8th Rejected from job due to stammering I'm a fresher .I'm not financially independent yet and I'm in my mid twenties. I definitely need a job right now but due to stammer i didn't able to get...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
1 points

It's so real bro. I can 100% relate to that. Everyday feels like a battle. And you're just exhausted sometimes. But ahhhh, what can you do?...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
1 points

I am also trying, I am not saying not, but struggle of stuttering from start to end everyday feels unbearable😅😅😅....

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
3 points

Thugging it out, I guess. Haha. I have no idea what else I can do. I went to a job fair at my school last week. Couldn't speak a single coherent sentence without major blocks. Yet I forced myself to s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2024
1 points

These two points really provoked something in me, that made me less nervous about my presentation today and my sir told "even with stammering he is coming up confidently to take presentation" but some...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Helplessness & AgencyMindset shift
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2024
1 points

Yeah but these people are extraordinary in what they do and have shown that they have the momentum and the will power to do what they did . I have been such a hard stutterer that I can't speak more th...

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2024
1 points

Sadly, I shove myself into video games and endless scrolling. It gets really bad on the weekends when I'm not in school. I know i can probably just text my classmates/friends but i dont want to feel l...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Loneliness & IsolationHelplessness & Agency
postr/overcome_stutteringOct 17, 2024
1 points

I don't what's happening?

I don't what's happening? I already struggle trying to understand people I have auditory processing disorder, but now lately I've noticed I will speak and occasionally my words come out jumbled and I ...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Repetitions & ProlongationsHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 17, 2024
2 points

Yeah, I know that she didn't do it on purpose but the whole situation just made me angry/sad because I just feel so helpless against my stutter. I can't properly function in a society and even tho I t...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2024
0 points

Getting over the fear of stuttering solves what exactly? That still doesn't change the fact that we are not able to communicate partially or for people like me, almost completely. It doesn't change th...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2024
4 points

Yes, I had zero awareness during blocks UNTIL one day I somehow managed to know what was happening and then I snapped out of it. At the gym, a guy asked me how many sets I had left, and **I felt a s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightTrauma & Psychological+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2024
2 points

I see what you meant. I rarely speaking out loud, but speak in mind a lot. I read from Lee Lovett to stop trying to rehearse my speech in mind just moment before saying it, and it somewhat helped.  ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringCycles & Randomness+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2024
5 points

Give it a shot, it doesn’t hurt to try. I’d love for you to try it and get rid of blocking. Then I’ll feel even more accomplished knowing that the myth of “YoU CaNT FuX a StUTTeR” is busted. I fixed...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 15, 2024
4 points

Nice. The fact you told me that you’ve had blocks, and they’ve **disappeared** but came back in 2019, lets me know that you CAN/DID get rid of it and it’s not genetic. But, I think the traumatic memor...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionTrauma & PsychologicalHelplessness & Agency