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commentr/StutterOct 25, 2023
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I don't think I've told many (if any) people that I stutter. It is obvious to me. That said, I don't blame you for not telling her. I do think you should tell her to gauge her reaction from her abo...

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commentr/StutterOct 25, 2023
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Hey, you're already doing a lot better than many other stutters you got a gf man! She likes you!! And obviously if she hasn't mentioned it she probably doesn't even notice it or just already used to ...

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commentr/StutterOct 25, 2023
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Deal with the physical obstacle of you stuttering, something you can definitely unlearn, rather than how ppl see you if you stutter. Very tricky indeed. You have to tell yourself (believe) certain th...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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I don't really, honestly I'm still mustering the courage to tell her but boy that is really hard. I can feel my heart skip a few beats as I prepare to tell her....

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postr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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Two 15 minutes presentation this week

Two 15 minutes presentation this week I have to give two 15 minute presentation in this week , and i stutter but nobody in class no i Stutter,i have given 5 minutes presentation before, i am able to h...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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yea it's not really a confession, makes it sound like you committed something bad or evil and you're trying to apologize for it. that's just who you are and opening up to your gf will make her more su...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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Buddy, tell her. The less you hide it, the less anxiety you feel about it. Own the stutter. It does not own you. She loves you for who you are, regardless of your speech....

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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I'll stop overthinking and just tell her, I don't wanna get to that stage of overthinking bad things about us....

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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😂😂 that's actually a casual way to bring it up and if she didn't know it would actually be a funny interactions. Either way it works in my favor 👏👏....

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
1 points

Thanks for all your comments I'm going to tell her that I stutter and see what happens next. It's a part of me and I can't run from it. Seems I needed other people who could relate to me to tell me th...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
1 points

Just bring it up in a conversation. You can act like you always knew that she knows about your stutter. This is how I brought it up in my relationship. This was the only way I could talk about it with...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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Wish I told her earlier when the relationship was still fresh but I guess I was to nervous. I'm inlove with her I don't think I can handle it if she leaves me because of it or feels bad not to leave m...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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Idk how tk bring up the conversation. I can't just hey, did you know that I stutter... maybe I should just casually bring it up. I just hope that she doesn't mind or anything cause wow....

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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Suppose j can't hide it forever huh, no matter how much ibtry and like you said I can pretty much hide it, for the most part anyway. I can't keep this up forever. I'll just tell her exactly like that....

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
2 points

Maybe I'm reading too much into the video and her reaction. And from all the comments here seems that confessing about this issue is the best way to actually overcome this small crisis of mine. Heck i...

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commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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I went years without telling my husband I stuttered! Like you, I developed some tricks to mask my stutter. I finally told him and that’s when he said he had never really noticed, he just thought that’...

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commentr/StutterOct 23, 2023
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You, like me, stutter. Nobody knows cause we always try to hide it and (are able to) do it well. It's called a covert stutter as opposed to an overt one. You should definitely tell her imo. She'd be l...

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postr/StutterOct 23, 2023
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My gf doesn't know I stutter

My gf doesn't know I stutter My gf and I have been dating for approximately a year and few months now and I didn't tell her that I stutter. When we met I asked her out which to this day idk where I g...

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commentr/StutterOct 20, 2023
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Every time I have introduced myself to someone with a stutter (mine was severe but now I’m able to hide it a lot more with word substitutions) I’ve had great experiences. The other person usually woul...

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commentr/StutterOct 20, 2023
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one thing i would advise you to try to do is be compassionate with yourself, I know it’s wayy harder than it sounds but even getting frustrated with it is giving the stutter power, you start to get in...

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