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commentr/StutterJul 11, 2020
3 points

This happened to me a lot of times. That's y I never travel in a bus if I don't have a pass or a card. I've skipped classes because I was afraid to travel by bus. The annoying conductor never misses t...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Stigma & BullyingAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterJul 11, 2020
93 points

Open letter from a happy stutterer to young stammers. My thoughts and mistakes for you to learn.

Open letter from a happy stutterer to young stammers. My thoughts and mistakes for you to learn. Hi mates, I’ve discovered this sub with a lot of relatable content. I’m glad to see some wholesome his...

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commentr/StutterJul 10, 2020
6 points

I’ve been stuttering since 4 years old, and I’m currently working towards my masters. I’m not in law school, but I have to speak often, take part in discussion groups and presentations, and give case ...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Energy & Biological RhythmsAvoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2020
1 points

YESSS!!! Everytime I got called on I'll just talk fast to get it over with. I dont stutter much while I'm reading as long as I dont think about it. Like when we did popcorn reading I would just keep t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational Variability
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2020
1 points

Ugh, that was the worst, especially that "popcorn" reading bullshit! I used to hide in the bathrooms back in HS, tbh haha....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2020
2 points

Still hate it. There's one trainer who comes through every couple of years and she does the "lets go around the room and everyone read a paragraph" bullshit. Everyone hates it not just me. Last time w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2020
2 points

Yes and it was aways the worst thing ever. Some of my teachers would allow me to refuse, but most did not. Or that whole "go around the room" and read thing. Ugh. But yeah it really sucks. Because a ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2020
2 points

I've had a stutter since the day I was born. It's worse when I'm stuck to a script I can't change; "steer" around words that I know are going to give me a problem. Back in middle school, I was the s...

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commentr/StutterJul 10, 2020
2 points

I’m in my last semester as a senior in college. I’ve been postponing and dropping the speech courses for years now and it’s really starting to affect my life, as it’s beginning to morph into a phobia....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2020
3 points

Thank god I'm done with highschool, I really hated to read or just speak in class in general. Hope university will be better. I'm still gonna have an English exam (not my native language) which will h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionSchool & Academic Life
postr/StutterJul 10, 2020
51 points

Has anyone ever tried to use your stutter against you?

Has anyone ever tried to use your stutter against you? I work at a department store (have only been here for about 2.5 months now) and the managers in my department encouraged me to apply for a manage...

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commentr/StutterJul 10, 2020
2 points

Sometimes I did and sometimes I didn’t. But the fear of stuttering always made me anxious to read....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2020
1 points

Now that you mention it, yeah I do. But I guess it is because I don’t talk much to strangers anyway....

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commentr/StutterJul 10, 2020
1 points

I don't have a 504 plan but try speaking with the professor. Maybe you can have you're presentations one to one. I remember taking public speaking in college and having a presentation every week. In ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Preparation & RehearsalAvoidance & SubstitutionSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
3 points

This is why conventional speech therapy doesn’t work. I am fluent with new people and fall to pieces with people/friend I know. So I know that I’m mentally ill but a the age of 74 who really gives a ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
2 points

Yess! I’m a cashier and can usually go through the day with minimal stuttering. However, whenever I call my mom or have FaceTime calls with my family it’s like every second word is a stutter....

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Severity & FluctuationAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
6 points

Yesterday the phone rang, when I answered it and tried to say "hello" I lost the word. Tried two more times, still couldn't say it, swore (didn't have any problem saying "damn it!") and then hung up. ...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
5 points

Thats so wild because I’ve never encountered another stutterer who experiences this - maybe I just don’t know many stutterers!! But yes agreed it’s v frustrating, it’s a shit show for me at home too I...

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commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
4 points

I think most people do to tbh, I barely stutter out loud at work or in professional settings. but at home its kind of a shit show. Unfortunately it bothers me a lot that I can't be fluent at home as m...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Cycles & RandomnessAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2020
3 points

so relatable hahaa the amount of times I pretend I can't think of a word is extraordinary lolll. "what's it called?.... you know...ah I can't think of the word..."...

Anticipation & Avoidance
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