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postr/StutterJul 15, 2020
4 points

How to live with it?

How to live with it? I live in a small town in Tennessee, I have been stuttering since I was a child. Couple of years ago I worked on my stuttering and boosted my confidence, I would talk to strangers...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2020
5 points

My advice is to disclose your stutter. Be upfront & honest. I am 49 years old, master's degree in Industrial/Organizational Psychology, married with 1 son AND a national trainer. My stutter star...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Mindfulness & BreathingAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2020
3 points

Sometime I decided to keep an opinion for me because I feel it when I'm going to stutter or not....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2020
3 points

Whenever someone responds like this, try to tell them about your stutter. They don't understand that it's not in our control to stutter or not. So they better be informed right in the moment so that t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2020
3 points

The "spit it out" comment is always the worst. Because no one wants us to spit it out more than us! And many people don't understand that. Don't let that ignorance get to you! I think the best soluti...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2020
1 points

Sometimes that’s difficult for me. At other times he interrupts me so much that it’s just not worth finishing the sentence anymore....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionListener Reactions
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2020
5 points

Thank you for this really just showed me a new prescriptive. I know my stutter won’t hold me back in life but I just feel like If I didn’t have my stutter life would be so much easier. I’m gonna try a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencySeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2020
1 points

19 bro, noticed my stutter around 6-7 years old. I was the type of student to stay quiet and just keep to myself unless I was told to answer or if the teacher told me to read something in class. Movin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2020
14 points

Some people don’t know how to respond to people who stutter. I don’t know this person, but I doubt it was said maliciously. There will always be people that say things like that, and it will come whe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation
postr/StutterJul 14, 2020
55 points

Saddened

Saddened Just to keep it short and simple yesterday I went downstairs to go eat with my family. My sisters friend had came over so we began to talk. It was casual talk but then I started speaking to m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2020
1 points

I'm no expert, but it really doesn't sound like it's your training that does that. Perhaps you're just looking for a clear cause? That's not a luxury we typically have with stuttering. Try forgettin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionCycles & RandomnessHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2020
1 points

yes was very hard for me too. Believe it or not I used to call information 100 times a week to densensitize myself . It was free. Even if you changed it the same thing would happen, There is hope. ...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2020
1 points

I also experience this. My first name is unusual, so there's the added anxiety of correcting others - anxiety around telling them the right way plus actually saying it over (and over) again. I tried g...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2020
1 points

Does anyone omit the first letter of their name so it's easier to say? People can usually figure out easily what's being said (I do it when asked which city I'm from in my country)...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2020
1 points

I had a an interview. I was scared but made peace uwth the fact the some stutters would stay in. anyway, 1 mini stutter stayed in through a 3 minute vignette and I can't tell you how relieved and happ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
postr/StutterJul 14, 2020
14 points

I keep getting cut off

I keep getting cut off So I’m talking to this guy. I’ve been talking to him for a few months now, and he’s been starting to really tick me off. I’ve told him that I have a stutter and that I need to b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2020
2 points

i’ve tried it and know a little ASL but it’s really not practical - nobody else i know can understand ASL so it’s not helpful at all, still a fun hobby though...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2020
2 points

Yeah, I already did that sort of thing way back in kindergarten. I even went so far as to invent words that conveyed the meaning of those I avoided. E.g. instead of "shovel", I at one time said "digg...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2020
2 points

Omg talking on the phone how much I hate it I actually quit my job as dentist assistant part of my job was to pick up the phones when patients call to get appointments at first it was ok I liked the j...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterJul 13, 2020
8 points

Random Memory

Random Memory Sup guys! I was going through my yearbooks (since I'm bored af at home these days) and I came a class picture from grade 8. Thought I'd share something which was terrifying and embarrass...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationAcceptance & Pride