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postr/StutterNov 26, 2024
10 points

What are some of your problems/ externalities caused by stuttering

What are some of your problems/ externalities caused by stuttering It could also be habits Ill start.. zero communication skills, inability to make friends, low self esteem ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 26, 2024
1 points

This post resonated with me so much. I let go of any sort of hope years ago but it’s especially hitting me now. I’m a 22 y old female, and just at the age where people are starting to be thrown off t...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyDating & RomanceLoneliness & Isolation+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 26, 2024
1 points

I think it would remain "a big deal", even if we're 1%. As soon as we're different, being fat, short, too tall, ugly, having a disabily or being a stutterer, at some point it's always a big deal in ou...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Stigma & BullyingHelplessness & AgencySadness & Hopelessness+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 25, 2024
2 points

I unfortunately haven’t gotten to a place where I can yet, not for lack of people trying , I just can’t :/...

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 25, 2024
2 points

Yeah, I agree with that outlook. As I previously noted to two commenters: "Look at it this way: The more voluntary control you exhibit over your habits and tendencies and other areas outside of stutt...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 25, 2024
3 points

Definitely. And seeing how much harder they are to overcome compared to stuttering itself, I would focus on these externalities more than the stuttering itself if I were to have a child with stutterin...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyHope & MotivationAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 25, 2024
6 points

Yeah, I would agree that the negative habits and tendencies are there mostly due to the stutter. However, those you got more control over than you do your stuttering. And the more time passes that the...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2024
1 points

Oh, this condition changes our lives. Without fluency even with the education it’s difficult. My degree is in psychology/sociology, a field that requires oral communication. Fortunately, I married a p...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2024
7 points

My goal isn’t to stop seeking better opportunities. It’s for me to stop trying to improve my stutter as I learned that’s impossible. I developed a stutter young and I’m probably going to keep stutteri...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2024
1 points

My goal isn’t to stop seeking better opportunities. It’s for me to stop trying to improve my stutter as I learned that’s impossible. I developed a stutter young and I’m probably going to keep stutteri...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterNov 24, 2024
10 points

I’m Finally Quitting My Vision Of Improving Myself

I’m Finally Quitting My Vision Of Improving Myself A few days ago, I was watching a video about a boyfriend loyalty testing his partner. It was a very elaborate setup where the girl was meant to thin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2024
13 points

Stuttering has killed my confidence level. Id say its humbled me but they’res no humbling going on lol...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2024
5 points

But I've been there in high school. It'll get better , get involved with some form of in school or out of school activities, speak out more, and your peers will laugh and crack jokes, but don't take ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHelplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2024
1 points

90% psychological . Check the book redefining stuttering and check stuttering-specialist.com...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2024
1 points

Hey, I am really sorry if you felt like that. I didn’t mean it like that. I wasn’t saying to limit your possibilities, just that there are easier paths if stuttering feels like a big hurdle. But if y...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2024
1 points

You seem to have something to prove. I have nothing to prove to you. None of this has anything to do with the original post, nor my comment. However, a few things I noticed: 1. You don't even agr...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Neurological & BrainMedicalization / NeurodiversityHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2024
10 points

You literally just told us to limit our career possibilities because of stutter...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Helplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2024
1 points

I actually lean towards your side of the argument on the grounds that these acceptance strategies are a bit bogus. A few steps removed from the real thing. And you cannot exactly tell yourself not to ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Neurological & BrainMedicalization / NeurodiversityHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2024
3 points

Emboldened by simply the sheer size of research and number of observed differences between PWS and the fluent? I'd rather bet overwhelmed and barely understanding of the pursuit you propose. Does you...

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Neurological & BrainResearch & ResourcesHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterNov 22, 2024
2 points

Do you know who deserves better than you and I do? OP here who is in the same position we are and has the same tools at their disposal as we do, and takes charge by trying the best they can. You can ...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerHelplessness & AgencyValidation & Empathy+1 more