My goal isn’t to stop seeking better opportunities. It’s for me to stop trying to improve my stutter as I learned that’s impossible. I developed a stutter young and I’m probably going to keep stuttering till I meet death. My goals is to only shape the landscape my stutter lives in to get better results. Improvement requires change and without it you don’t get improvement. I can’t improve my stutter cause that requires change and you can’t change a stutter. It’s a curved arrow in a land where everyone is borned with straight ones, you arrow won’t reach any targets with a bow meant for straight arrows. It your job to spend time forging your perfect bow and unfortunately I spend most of my life deluding myself into believing my arrow could one day become a straight one. Long story short, it can’t. That what I meant by I am who I am. I have to work with my constraints and boost my strength to get a better output, and I can only do that by first accepting me for me and work within that, but I’ll keep what you said in mind. Thanks for your input.