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commentr/StutterOct 31, 2023
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Yea some people are not going to wait for you to finish. Even close friends or family. Don't hold it against them. They're just human and anyone can get impatient in a conversation. Especially since n...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Listener ReactionsFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2023
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I don't know about the benefits except I am a people pleaser and always nice to people. Can't even defend myself or place my point if there is a verbal conflict because i end up stuttering so bad that...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2023
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Yeah, pretty often. Just go always from this people. One day, it really hurt me : I was explaining something to some friends, and one of them just randomly asked another "So do you have a girlfriend?"...

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Frustration & AngerFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterOct 27, 2023
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The worst part is that whenever I have something funny to say, I go to say it, and even if I stutter, I get upset and don't want to finish what I was going to say. I just say "nevermind". I have a fr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterOct 26, 2023
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Stuttering isn’t sexy.

Stuttering isn’t sexy. I’m giving up on trying to say a damn thing anymore!! I sound ridiculous and you really can’t blame them for finding it funny. I give up....

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Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterOct 25, 2023
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An eternal struggle

An eternal struggle 31 yr old male who stutters, I'm a lawyer, well educated but always not taking credit for my achievement and subconsciously feel that my success has been from people filling pity f...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment+3 more
postr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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Got low in TOEFL speaking

Got low in TOEFL speaking As expected. At this point I pity m- m- m- myself. My dream schools will re- re- re- reject m- m- m- me now. Life....

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Severity & FluctuationFrustration & AngerSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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I couldn't help it my man, the more i was trying to hold my laughter the more I was laughing! Btw at the time i was stuttering pretty damn bad myself so im one that shouldn't laugh but like i said it ...

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Frustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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The laughing part is understandable tho my man, hell i even laughed one time uncontrollably when I was at this stuttering event... i apologized after the event tho and I encouraged the girl to keep sp...

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Frustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2023
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Are you asking about social settings vs. professional setting? Because I have been shocked and disgusted about the way I continue to be treated. For example, I called in to the VA recently and tried...

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Self-Advocacy & BoundariesFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2023
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Several examples… I had a (very wealthy) senior board member of a non-profit publicly tell me to “spit it out” in front of the entire board while doing a complex planning session. That phrase is pre...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringStress & Fight/FlightShame & Embarrassment+3 more
postr/StutterOct 23, 2023
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It’s just not fair

It’s just not fair I’ve had enough of this. It’s just isn’t fucking fair that everyone around me is able to go about their lives not constantly anxious they’re going to sound like a complete retard ev...

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Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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You are offensive at your own pace . That was a genuine question and you made a big deal out of it . Is your brain buckled in your knee ?...

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Frustration & Anger
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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Ridiculous questions ? Really ?? Shouldn’t have asked for help in the first place I suppose , you dim wit . You are just like one of those ridiculous assholes I am worried about . God save my kid ....

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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Unlike you, I’ve been that person and it’s made me stronger. Your fiancé sure is unlucky. You’re a vile person....

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Helplessness & AgencyFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2023
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He's 32... He has clearly just been a prick then. The key is to explain to him how it affects you, if that doesn't work throat punch him and ask him why he is taking so long to get a sentence out. ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Frustration & AngerAccess & Rights
postr/StutterOct 20, 2023
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Stuttering is so mentally draining 😩

Stuttering is so mentally draining 😩 It’s like we are all nutcases every person who stutters. We all get laughed at and become more closed off and this is so depressing for real I wouldn’t wish this ...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingFrustration & Anger+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2023
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well, chances are he doesn't consider stuttering a "disability" and keeps mocking you for the "way" you speak. He might think you take too long to come up with an answer and doesn't know you get block...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2023
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He apologized later. But, a month after the argument, he made fun of my stutter again, so obviously he doesn’t get it...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2023
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If I were you, I would ignore him until he apologizes and get on with the rest of my day. Stuttering would have already made your life miserable and you don't want someone to rub salt in it let alon...

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