Yeah, pretty often. Just go always from this people. One day, it really hurt me : I was explaining something to some friends, and one of them just randomly asked another "So do you have a girlfriend?". I was stuttering really hard, I guess they lose patience. The worst is that nobody noticed and tried to intervene. I left the group and found myself new friends. All of them are amazing. If you're not feeling listened, you have two choices: tell them what makes you uncomfortable, they maybe don't realise or truly wanna listen, but they got distracted. Or they're just jerks and don't even try.