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commentr/StutterOct 5, 2017
3 points

When I was in high school, someone gave me some simple yet good advice: fuck 'em. Fuck them. Fuck all those mother fuckers. You can't spend your whole life fearful of others. This isn't about you stut...

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commentr/StutterOct 4, 2017
2 points

To add to this though -- I still do the practices daily, it's something for me to hang on to rather than just feeling bad about myself. And really simple things, like breathing while you talk, I never...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesMindfulness & BreathingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2017
2 points

So, I did HCRI two years ago. I have mixed feelings about the experience. I was stuttering a lot at the time, and I was not in a good place with my speech. Just feeling really self-conscious and low a...

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commentr/StutterOct 4, 2017
6 points

I have felt the same way, I'm 20 years older and am happy. Here's what I did. I'm a cleaning person. Yes not an impressive position but I don't have to talk. Lots of people engage me with friendly sm...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideQuality of Life
commentr/StutterOct 4, 2017
14 points

Hey i used to be just like you, then i realized, everything has a time and place. When the moment comes for something to happen, you’ll know it. And I WAS LITERALLY THINKING EVERY SINGLE BULLET POINT ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterOct 3, 2017
6 points

That's the hand we were dealt. My stuttering doesn't get worse with anxiety, but it does for a lot of people. Mine just naturally fluctuates in a seemingly random way. For me, what changed my life wa...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Authenticity vs. MaskingVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterOct 1, 2017
8 points

Tattoos

Tattoos Does anyone here have tattoos that represent their stutter? Or associate it with their experience? Tattoos are a great way to express ourselves as stutterers. I want to hear what you guys thi...

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commentr/StutterSep 29, 2017
1 points

So does the man in the video have a stutter? It sounds like he's using a speech jammer and then getting temporary relief with out. The best programs in America don't see stuttering as a problem to be ...

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Acceptance & PrideMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterSep 29, 2017
1 points

I think some people can just own their stuttering in such a positive or neutral way that they come off as articulate. I think there's so much more to being an effective communicator than being fluent....

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commentr/StutterSep 28, 2017
2 points

It's not unheard of. I've met a few people who even started stuttering after 18. If you live in the US, go to an NSA group and definitely go to the conference next year. The biggest thing you can do i...

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commentr/StutterSep 27, 2017
1 points

Throw in some voluntary stuttering and let them know you stutter. It’s OK to stutter. Be skilled, be strong, be confident. You got this....

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commentr/StutterSep 27, 2017
1 points

Congrats! So happy you've excelled, it's tough as it is. What specialties are you looking at? Radiology for example has less patient interaction while oncology you often deal with family members just ...

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commentr/StutterSep 26, 2017
2 points

Are you still seeing this therapist? The only good news I can say is you have actual proof whether or not people give a shit that you stutter? My guess is no, not really. The fact that you are more aw...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 25, 2017
1 points

Thank you for the awesome reply man. I will keep this stuff in mind going forward. I'm still in the weird phase where i'm not totally accepting of my stutter. I think that may be part of the problem. ...

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Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2017
3 points

I wouldn't worry about it. You're probably reading into it more than you need to. Just do your job and do it well, don't worry about anything else. They will see your work ethic and it will pay off in...

Identity & Disability
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commentr/StutterSep 23, 2017
1 points

Seek some professional help for your suicidal thoughts. Also try to accept yourself as a stutterer and learn to love yourself. Focus on living a happy life with your disability. My daughter stutters i...

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commentr/StutterSep 20, 2017
2 points

Don't be scared to stutter! :) Get familiar with it so you know what's going on. It's not dangerous or anything. It's just words coming out at a different pace than what you intended. Next time you st...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
postr/StutterSep 20, 2017
7 points

"My mouth spit shines syllables 'til they sparkle."

"My mouth spit shines syllables 'til they sparkle." https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j8XOyY54-Ew Found this incredibly powerful poem by Erin Schick who stutters as well. Some of the lines in the poem ...

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commentr/StutterSep 19, 2017
3 points

Hey there! Hang in there -- that's a tough age, I remember stuttering a lot when I was in junior high and feeling really insecure about it. It takes time, it's a slow course, but stuttering can, in a ...

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commentr/StutterSep 18, 2017
4 points

I feel the exact same way as the other guy who commented. Keep in mind that nothing is scientifically proven to be the "cause" or "cure" to stuttering. If it were, we would all be doing it :) In all...

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