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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
-4 points

Rule number 2: "Be respectful and supportive at all times." Being negative is not being supportive. Thus, those posts shouldn't be here or should be separated from the rest to not flood the sub. Bei...

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Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
-1 points

I feel like the opposite is true. Every time someone vents about their stutter there are couple of people immediately commenting that that the person venting is weak, full of self pity and their post ...

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postr/StutterOct 21, 2025
22 points

An old man told me I'm unconfident

An old man told me I'm unconfident Hi everyone, I want to share something I experienced (not a bad experience). Yesterday, as usual, I was on a bus going back home from college. An old man (maybe arou...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
2 points

I think we need to be careful about presenting "70% of stutterers are suicidal" as fact. This originates from a study of 140 people on suicidial ideation and is very unlikely to be representative. W...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
1 points

You are thinking about this exactly the right way; your awareness and sensitivity already make a huge difference for him. When stuttering increases, yes, it is often connected to anxiety or pressure, ...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
3 points

Got it. This helps so much. I didn't want to stare creepily and looking away felt weird. Also, this was new for me so I didn't know how to act most of the time. All I could do was be patient. So I hav...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
13 points

I completely disagree. Having suicidal thoughts is not shameful and it is something that should be talked about more. 70% of all stutterers have suicidal ideation. Just imagine the percent in severe o...

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commentr/StutterOct 21, 2025
2 points

Thank you for your kind words! Yeah growing up with a stutter was tough, especially the teen years. But I married an amazing woman that gave me the confidence to mostly conquer my stutter. When around...

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Acceptance & PrideEmployment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2025
5 points

I'm 22 and I've never been in a relationship myself. While I think I'm pretty pathetic myself for it, it's mostly because I never tried really conversing with people afraid of what they'd say. At one...

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postr/StutterOct 20, 2025
5 points

I clutter - I also feel like I'm never going to find love

I clutter - I also feel like I'm never going to find love Hello my cousins! I couldn't find the cluttering community. And that's because there aren't a lot of us. Stuttering is more common. But clutte...

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postr/StutterOct 20, 2025
18 points

Disclosing your stammer to a partner

Disclosing your stammer to a partner Hi everyone! Wanted to ask about advice regarding disclosing your stammer to a potential partner during a talking stage. I’ve been doing everything possible to avo...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2025
8 points

Yes, I’ve eliminated caffeine and all refined sugars from my diet, and I’m on Prozac to address my anxiety. It’s helped a LOT with my fluency. Not 100% gone, but I’d say I’m 95% fluent now with occasi...

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commentr/StutterOct 20, 2025
1 points

I’m really confused about what to do after seeing all the positive comments and different points of view on my situation. A part of me truly wants to give it a try, but another part is scared , scared...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2025
3 points

I can definitely relate to this. Growing up I was not very attractive and later in my 20s through hard work and growing into my features I became conventionally attractive. Since I have a stutter I am...

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commentr/StutterOct 19, 2025
1 points

I think it's cause I have severe anxiety, that I'm stuttering even if I'm alone, just a little less. But I also put so much damn pressure on myself by trying to force myself to perform when I'm speaki...

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commentr/StutterOct 19, 2025
1 points

Her best friends (female) and my best friends (male) are good friends. my friend asked if he should introduce me to her or maybe let her know that I like her, but I refused. I know she deserves someon...

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commentr/StutterOct 19, 2025
3 points

uni will be over in three months. For the past three years, I’ve just been admiring my crush from a distance. I never had the courage to approach her because of my stutter. Why would a beautiful girl ...

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commentr/StutterOct 19, 2025
1 points

its very rare to meet a girl who stutters xd. Have you got any advice on how to overcome your stutter and anxiety? mine is really bad....

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commentr/StutterOct 19, 2025
9 points

I posted this in another spot, but I think it applies here, as I am a believer, and have wrestled with God about this for the last 15 or so years. I’ve used drugs to try to expand my mind, figure out ...

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commentr/StutterOct 19, 2025
3 points

I’m right there, and often. I went to a party last night, and I could sense that people don’t want me to join their little small conversation groups. When I’m standing next to someone, there are awkwa...

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