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commentr/StutterJan 12, 2021
2 points

M30 here.. Stuttering since I was about 8 years old. Sorry to break it to you but it doesn't go away man.. School was hell.. Reading aloud, introducing yourself, even the morning attendance where we w...

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commentr/StutterJan 12, 2021
9 points

I'm 19 now mate and sometimes it gets to u but u shouldn't let it hold u back. most the time I just embrace it really I mean the people i see on a day to day basis know me and know that it's hard for ...

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postr/StutterJan 11, 2021
11 points

Stuttering botched my joke

Stuttering botched my joke A co-worker buddy of mine was asked to meet with my boss about something and another co-worker asked “what do you think he did?” (Context we have the most boring mundane of...

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commentr/StutterJan 11, 2021
1 points

Some people who stutter switch words to avoid a word they believe will be stuttered; this is much harder to do in your second language......

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commentr/StutterJan 11, 2021
3 points

Haha, reminds me of the time I was working on radios and had to relay a small piece of information when my instructor (who was new and didn’t know me) was grading me. I chose to use a deeper, slower a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionPhysical Tension
postr/StutterJan 11, 2021
6 points

Online speech therapy

Online speech therapy I have been suffering from a speech block stutter primarily on the phone for the last few years working in insurance. Due to the pandemic I've been working from home a lot and I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkTherapy & Professional
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commentr/StutterJan 11, 2021
1 points

I don't quite know what to call it. In posts in here previously, I've talked about "performance modes" in general, but that's beginning to sound a bit too clear-cut for me. So, perhaps "interaction ...

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Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2021
1 points

Good idea. I just talked to someone who said he doesn't stutter when he talks super fast....

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commentr/StutterJan 11, 2021
1 points

You could look into cluttering. That might fit better than stuttering. I know with cluttering, I feel like it goes away sometimes....

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commentr/StutterJan 11, 2021
1 points

Probably the different sounds. I stutter less in English. Different people have issues with different sounds. English is a "smoother" language than most. Not that many hard open vowels that can lead t...

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postr/StutterJan 11, 2021
7 points

Finance career with a stutter

Finance career with a stutter Anyone here work in finance? If so, how has it been for you? What has helped you in job interviews? I am currently a sophomore who aspires to work in investment banking...

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commentr/StutterJan 10, 2021
2 points

There is definitely something about this. I remember being completely fluent as a small kid, chatterbox.. feint memories of early reading classes and just interacting with other kids. Then somewhere...

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commentr/StutterJan 9, 2021
3 points

During every eye exam I had growing up, I would lie about the letters I saw. Saying letters, especially the ones with hard sounds, was tough back then so I defaulted to saying the easy ones and I was ...

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commentr/StutterJan 9, 2021
5 points

It’s awkward asf. Ill pause for a moment and they’ll think I forgot my name. And the impression i get is that they prolly think I’m stupid. Stupid insecurities....

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commentr/StutterJan 9, 2021
2 points

When I get pulled over sometimes the officers ask me if I’m drunk. Last time wasn’t bad though, the cop said "Not to be rude, but is that a natural speech impediment?” I said yes. I still wish more co...

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commentr/StutterJan 9, 2021
7 points

I recently joined the USMC with a stutter, and when I first got to Parris Island my stutter was so bad during receiving they pulled me off to the side.. down a long corridor to an office where I had a...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2021
1 points

I’ve been looked at like I had three heads quite often, hung up on, and yelled at because a person thought I couldn’t read but haven’t been asked if I was drunk yet. After reading the experiences of...

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commentr/StutterJan 9, 2021
4 points

One of the most relatable comments to me. That's happened to me so many times it's fucking retarded. Especially when I'm the least drunk out of my friend group. One time the bouncers let my friend in ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionStigma & BullyingPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2021
4 points

I work as a dental receptionist, and one of our patients whom I was talking to on the phone thought I was drunk at 9 in the morning. He was very rude about it and it was hurtful. I told the doctor and...

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commentr/StutterJan 9, 2021
2 points

I’ve had the opposite experience where I really am drunk and told police it’s because of my stutter (which honestly is made worse by the drinking anyway) lol...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)