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commentr/StutterSep 11, 2025
1 points

that is in your mind. not your stutter but the "I could fire myself" part. that's your subjective judgement. you did not get fired. and that is the objective truth. as healthygamer recently said abou...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 11, 2025
1 points

U have no right to tell me my perspective of stuttering is wrong and skewed. Are u a stuttering scientist? We all have our own experience with a stutter. Who are u to tell me my perspective is wrong? ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterSep 11, 2025
2 points

>you cannot provide a citation that stutterers are often fluent when truly alone Purely anecdotal, yes. Overwhelmingly so. But anecdotal. >It's about time we move away from these attempts at psychol...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social JudgmentPersonal Stories
commentr/StutterSep 11, 2025
2 points

What I'm talking about directly challenges the claim that stuttering is a mental illness. I'm here to say that it's far from it. Be kind to yourself....

Identity & Disability
Medicalization / NeurodiversityIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 11, 2025
2 points

While stuttering and mental illness aren't mutually exclusive, stuttering is not a mental illness. I've seen your recent blitz of comments here. You have a very skewed and inaccurate perspective of st...

Identity & Disability
Medicalization / NeurodiversityIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/stutteringSep 10, 2025
2 points

When someone doesn't understand you, it might not be because you stutter

When someone doesn't understand you, it might not be because you stutter I've shared my life story here on reddit [like a year ago](https://www.reddit.com/r/stuttering/comments/1dpareo/comment/lav4fn0...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2025
9 points

I know exactly how you feel. But that’s not exactly “about you” Try to watch someone else stuttering online. You're going to feel bad also. I felt the same way before. Don’t be hard on yourself. We ar...

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commentr/StutterSep 10, 2025
1 points

So for that you’ll need to understand the brain. The cells in the human brain are called neurons and information travels in these neurons through electrical signals forming synapses. When you involve ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Neurological & BrainIdentity & Self-PerceptionAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterSep 10, 2025
12 points

I heard my own meeting recording and now I’m traumatised.

I heard my own meeting recording and now I’m traumatised. I recently joined a remote internship, and we have 2 meetings daily. Today, after one meeting, I found out that it was recorded and I could li...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2025
1 points

I'm really wondering about this phenomenon. Can we figure something out ? , like we don't actually stutter, but people around us make us stutter ??, or once we know we're being listened to, stutter au...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2025
2 points

I became fluent by studying as to why fluent speakers don’t stutter. This led me to the idea of having voluntary control over my Valsalva response. I am a speech pathologist so I have a bit more infor...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2025
3 points

I am a life born stutterer and I’m planning on starting my own space technology startup. Trust me, everything is possible, even with stuttering. Just don’t go hard on yourself and keep on improving...

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Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-PerceptionEmployment & Career
postr/StutterSep 10, 2025
0 points

Maybe we stutter cuz we are fed up from the bs that we see

Maybe we stutter cuz we are fed up from the bs that we see _ you see , we don't stutter alone right , we became so ourself when we are alone, atleast in my case , but just when family come home , just...

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Stress & Fight/FlightTrauma & PsychologicalFrustration & Anger+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 10, 2025
0 points

what have people done to make you think that though? You don’t know 100% that they thought you were a freak unless they told you to your face which I highly doubt. My point is, the stuttering brain t...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2025
-3 points

yes it happens to us but are you gonna base your entire personality off that, its just something that happens, everybody has their own baggage and they need to deal with their baggage accordingly...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2025
25 points

I know brothers and sisters, it is HARD to be part of this community. But man I hate how many posts sound like some self pity bullshit. Chin up people! Be proud to be alive. Or just downvote me to obl...

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Validation & EmpathyHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 9, 2025
38 points

We, stutterers, need to realize that everyone has their own baggage. Their own shit. Maybe it's depression, or debt, or a lisp, or bad teeth, or daddy issues, or whatever. I guarantee you that 99% of ...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/Stutter_remissionSep 9, 2025
1 points

Additionally, I believe [perfectionism](https://www.google.com/search?q=%22Perfectionism%22+%22stuttering%22) (i.e., a cognitive distortion) and stuttering can be tied to an unwillingness to be vulnar...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringStress & Fight/FlightPropositionality & Weight+3 more
commentr/Stutter_remissionSep 9, 2025
1 points

For your information. What works for one person may not work for another. The best thing we can do is learning from various perspectives to expand our own understanding and beliefs! Here is a summary...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightTrauma & PsychologicalMindfulness & Breathing+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2025
1 points

Hey, I hear you. I just want to say that your feelings are valid—stuttering can be really frustrating and it’s natural to feel overwhelmed at times. But I don’t think your stutter makes you “doomed” o...

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