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commentr/StutterJun 25, 2024
1 points

There’s a miscommunication when people say to “accept your stutter”. What they mean is “you have hard silent blocks and many uncomfortable and bizarre avoidance behaviors (see below) because your bra...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Authenticity vs. MaskingHiding & ConcealmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterJun 25, 2024
1 points

I definitely used to. I don't remember who it was but a couple years ago so.eone made a post here about their story and one line that sticks with me was "I always assumed that one day my stutter would...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Authenticity vs. MaskingOverthinking & MonitoringMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 25, 2024
2 points

Yeah I feel you with that, what helped me was to start off small, don't have to have full conversation with them. Just try to make eye contact and say stuff like hey, how are you, good morning....

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Friendships & BelongingAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2024
2 points

I'm fluent when speaking to myself... could say any difficult word or phrase there is without stuttering. Immediately another person is in the picture ... it's a different story....

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2024
1 points

There is something to be said about your perspective. I've entertained it for a while. Firstly, meditation has shown to increase the concentration of white matter cells in the brain, which aid left a...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Neurological & BrainOverthinking & MonitoringPropositionality & Weight+1 more
postr/StutterJun 24, 2024
33 points

IMO the most absurd thing about stuttering is how inconsistent it is

IMO the most absurd thing about stuttering is how inconsistent it is I (25M) have been stuttering since 22 years. What annoys me most about the stutter is that it's just utterly absurd when it occurs...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational VariabilityRoles & Performance+2 more
postr/StutterJun 24, 2024
1 points

IMO the most absurd thing about stuttering is how inconsistent it is

IMO the most absurd thing about stuttering is how inconsistent it is I (25M) have been stuttering since 22 years. What annoys me most about the stutter is that it's just utterly absurd when it occurs...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational VariabilityRoles & Performance+2 more
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2024
5 points

It might be different for each stutterer, but with me, some people tend to look away and loose eye contact when I start stuttering, I guess (subconsciously?) probably out of respect and not wanting to...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 24, 2024
1 points

Used to i was thinking about it a lot too, now I don't, i try to not think at all, it's hard, but it's worth time to learn how to do it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2024
8 points

Create an identity statement. You behave and perform based on who you believe you are. Use your identity statement to reinforce who you want to be. Example identity statement - I am not afraid to st...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. MaskingHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2024
0 points

Nope. Its a way to accept what is not even there. It just reinforces that you are insecure about your stutter and its a compulsive behavior. It is borderline OCD. There are 1000s of opportunities to ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityTherapy & Professional
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. MaskingCure Claims / Alt-Treats
commentr/StutterJun 22, 2024
1 points

Imagine this. Someone is saying something to you, but instead of responding, you just think of a response. Can he know what you were thinking ? No. Based on what words come out of your mouth, people c...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 21, 2024
2 points

This makes a lot of sense and it’s also terrifying. I’m a fellow covert stutterer and I can feel the tension building up as I read! 😀 But I also know that all you mention helped me in the past to get...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJun 21, 2024
27 points

Do you allow yourself to stutter or try to hide it?

Do you allow yourself to stutter or try to hide it? I always go ‘human-thesaurus-mode’ and try to skip around the words I actually want to say (often leading to me saying things in weird ways I think)...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 21, 2024
12 points

I used to hate it. Now I’m in my late twenties I find these kind of experiences to be a really fascinating human experience. Like, a listeners initial reaction when I struggle to speak gives me such ...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJun 21, 2024
2 points

my solution to stuttering

my solution to stuttering I'm 17 and i have stuttering mu whole life and i found out a trick too reduce my stuttering . it's to play another voice or to speak in an other voice that is not mine i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational VariabilityAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 20, 2024
1 points

its sad that most pws will never try your recommendations because it goes against what our brain tells us to do (not show our stutter to others) i can guarantee that a majority of pws can start start...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. MaskingHope & Motivation
postr/StutterJun 20, 2024
21 points

How I dramatically and sustainably reduced my debilitating stutter blocks

How I dramatically and sustainably reduced my debilitating stutter blocks TLDR - I dramatically and sustainably reduced my blocks by : letting others h-h-hear my repetitions, beginning on a normal si...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+3 more
postr/StutterJun 20, 2024
1 points

How I dramatically and sustainable reduced my debilitating blocks

How I dramatically and sustainable reduced my debilitating blocks TLDR - I dramatically and sustainably reduced my blocks by : letting others h-h-hear my repetitions, beginning on a normal size exhale...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 20, 2024
1 points

While I 100% agree in my own case. The biggest leap forward in my life is accepting I stutter and will forever and I just have to be OK with myself. For some people it's so debilitating that I don't ...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking