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commentr/StutterFeb 17, 2021
2 points

Sometimes, I dread talking to strangers because I start practicing what to say off the top of my head over and over again and that makes me more nervous....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2021
1 points

Yes. They have tried to back off but it is almost a habit. The less I engage the better. They know but they just can seem to help it. I just keep my point short and walk away before I get more ril...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionListener Reactions
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2021
2 points

Hey there, I work in a place where I have to call people a lot and we have a script. I use my stuttering modification and control techniques in order to make it sound more smooth. While I cant get rid...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2021
2 points

I've done this for most of my life, and still sometimes do. I feel like it's important to learn NOT to. Even if not all at once, just try doing it a few times a day. Avoiding words (to me) only result...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2021
2 points

There isn't really anyway around it if your stutter is pretty bad. You just have to power through it....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2021
1 points

I saw your other comments man and first I want to say: please ask for help. If this becomes a life long stutter, you are going to wish you reached out to someone sooner. Don’t be afraid of your parent...

Community & SupportSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Advice RequestsOnset & Life-Stage ChangesAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 15, 2021
1 points

Yeah I never have a problem face to face with people but a random person over the phone isn’t gonna know and is just gonna hear me breathing like in scary movies when serial killers call people and j...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2021
5 points

Don’t focus on the girl. That’s a big goal, especially never having kissed one before. Start small. With your peers, try to put yourself out there and talk more. It sounds like you are holding back ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2021
5 points

Honestly you don’t have to start out big. Little victories created bigger ones. Say “good morning/afternoon” when you see her. This doesn’t pertain to only her but other coworkers too. Social anxiety...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterFeb 14, 2021
1 points

I really need help with this.

I really need help with this. (14m) btw Right so basically I started having a bad stutter the other day with just like little stumbles and what not before that day (couldn't be classed as stuttering i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Experiential AssociationCycles & RandomnessAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2021
1 points

I don't drink so I can't say about that but I don't stutter when I sing or sometimes close my eyes while clenching my fist. Also English is my second language so I stutter more when I communicate in E...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Situational VariabilityAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2021
1 points

Oh damn, I try to say the word but still would fail LOL, over the years I’ve improved so now I tend to hang on syllables though. You can see it on my streams on twitch. Decided to stream anyway after ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2021
2 points

Yes it’s the same, I change the word before I say it. Over the years though I managed to talk better compared to back then. Now I still hang on certain words....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2021
1 points

Substitution is not a remedy for stuttering. Lack of confidence is not the cause of stutter. - Be careful how you phrase these things, such that people don't get the wrong idea about what you mean ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2021
2 points

It happens to me all the time. Sometimes when I'm traveling and I've to give directions, I'd know that I won't be able to say it and I'm going to have a speech block on that particular word(s). I some...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2021
2 points

I am fully convinced that stutterers have a far superior vocabulary to most because of this exact reason. I often have a list of words I can interchange as needed. Like a walking thesaurus!...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2021
2 points

Yup. Its a constant labor of grammar gymnastics trying to very, very quickly think of a replacement word that doesn't start with that letter, syllable or sound. It can get exhausting....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2021
2 points

I usually can tell when I'm going to stutter especially if I switch from English to Spanish. I just tell people I can't say words right now so give me a sec....

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2021
2 points

I've been doing this for as long as I can remember. What's the worst is when you stumble on the replacement word lol....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2021
2 points

10000% spot on. I know my letters I stutter on. Hard C’s (cold, carrot, etc). Hard G’s (golf, goal, etc), hard B’s (base, bill,bob). Change the word mid-sentence to avoid the stutter....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution