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commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
1 points

Trying to hide it IS literally the reason you struggle to say simple things in otherwise low stress situations. Changing your goal to be “letting others hhhear your rrrrepeyitions” will eventually le...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
3 points

Exactly the same for me. Even at work when we have auditors and visitors, I'll sometimes purposely take a drink of water when I know it's almost my turn to introduce myself and hopefully someone that ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
4 points

Immigration and DHS officers ( several countries, not all) are quite mean sometimes. I have had to tell them I have a stutter a couple times. But I guess it's their job to use body language to screen ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
6 points

When I got off of a plane from Dominican Republican and they asked me what I brought back with me he kind of teased me wondering if I am hiding something from being nervous but he realized quickly I s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
3 points

Hi, I'm 25F, and I struggle with things like that every freaking time😂 What's especially funny is that I can't make a sound while initially describing my issue, but once employee understands it I all...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
1 points

Oh yeah I was staying silent in many situations. When I was "questioned", remaining silent never occurred to me as an option. The issue was that I was generally nervous in many social situations due ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
1 points

The best advice that worked for me is to disclose your stutter either by email before and/or at the beginning of the interview. This allows you to not worry as much about stuttering and instead focus ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentPreparation & RehearsalSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
2 points

You grew up funny lol I wasn't inspected for anything, I avoided speaking at all, something happen f*ck it, I'd rather stay silent and not embarass myself than go after it, but there were situation wh...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
2 points

I think at the beginning of my journey talking about my stutter was really important, helped me to understand that it’s really not as big a deal as I thought and that other people really aren’t bother...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2025
3 points

Do what feels right. Stick with it - you might find that hiding yourself takes a lot more energy than dropping the fear. You have my support!...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2025
2 points

Thank you for your response! I need to let go of my fear of being judged. It doesn’t help that only the closest people in my life know about my stutter, so I am focused all the time on trying not to b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2025
1 points

I've had similar stories. People telling me to speak louder to seem more confident, blah blah. It's sometimes easy to believe that we somehow must compensate for our stuttering. But that's the worst t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2025
2 points

Hi! 20M here. So, any advice, tips, tricks? My honest reaction would be to stop struggling and wanting to fight. As for my knowledge, stuttering is a condition which you can't eradicate. You might e...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentGenetic & Family Factors+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2025
2 points

Try to forget you have a problem with it.  Don't think about it, don't worry about it, it's no big deal if you say it like a T, but just give yourself a break from it.  It should be the last thing on ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2025
1 points

I feel you! I send voice messages in texting on a daily basis as I really love its simplicity and how I can express myself more. I stutter, of course, sometimes more, sometimes less. But I rarely dare...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2025
1 points

Yes, exactly. It differs from country to country how hard it is to get. In my country, you have to hand it in 3 months prior to the exam date. And it's another 3 months till you get the certificate. B...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2025
2 points

Hi! I'm very interested in that ARTS therapy, can you elaborate on it more? In the past I used to believe stuttering could be overcome and I struggled a lot with it. Then I found the term "open stutte...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2025
2 points

I don't think that's entirely true. I'm soft spoken also but I always have my head held high, and when I'm approaching someone, i never rest my head or drop it low, doesnt matter if theyre bigger than...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2025
2 points

I know what you mean, I felt that anticipation and hesitation very much in my stuttering pattern. It's definitely possible to change it, nowadays I stutter without effort and I don't see them coming, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2025
2 points

Yeah fear and anticipation has played a massive part with me over the years. The more desensitised and less bothered I feel about the way I speak the better things have gotten. Still have good and bad...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+2 more