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Hi! 20M here. So, any advice, tips, tricks? My honest reaction would be to stop struggling and wanting to fight. As for my knowledge, stuttering is a condition which you can't eradicate. You might ease it but it'll persist. It's an innate part of your brain. It's hereditary in most cases. Of course, there are instances when a head injury or stroke might cause stuttering but these are the minority. When I was your age (I'm speaking like if I were old LOL) I was determined to fix my stutter. I believed if I could get rid of it, I would be much more successful in life. I certainly believed there existed techniques, such as breathing or speaking on rhythm which could cure me out of it. Or, even more so, I believed that I had childhood trauma which caused me to stutter. But listen, everyone has trauma. Everyone is anxious sometimes. For us, as PWS, stress simply comes out in stuttering. Also, we might not be stressed at all occasions when we stutter. It's maybe just that we're excited. As for my and many others' experience who I know and stutter, stuttering is somehow strangely connected to emotions. But that doesn't mean we have to simply change these emotions. It's fucking OK (!) to feel stressed or low at times. For others, emotions manifest themselves in other ways, that's ok. I don't see much to change here. When it comes to advice, I'd say first and foremost accept the fact that you stutter. I might sound harsh at first sight but I mean it. Only then can you feel comfortable with it once you've accepted it. I can relate how it feels an achievement to make a phone call without a single stutter. But I'm rather of the opinion, that many stuttering associations share: not hiding your stutter just makes you stronger. Therefore, I almost always disclose my stutter in social situations. When I'm at a cash register and even if I don't feel like stuttering, I voluntarily do so. It makes me more comfortable with what I have and also, I sometimes love to observe the reaction of the cashier. Yes, there are many people who react annoyed or shocked. But most of them are rather insecure. I usually reply with a smile and act like it's normal. Because it is. Even so, some seem curious about it. If I see the opportunity, I tell them I stutter and educate them a bit on the topic. That's from the top of my head. Cheers.