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postr/StutterApr 13, 2021
3 points

prolongation + filler words

prolongation + filler words most of my life I had problems with blocks. even now, blocks always occur when I speak. but since about a year, prolongations got more and more - although before that it wa...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Repetitions & ProlongationsAvoidance & SubstitutionAnticipating Stuttering+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2021
3 points

I stutter as well and I totally understand. The only thing that really works is developing a new speaking styles. This is why movie actors who stutter overcome stuttering while taking on a new persona...

Causes & VariabilitySchool & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Roles & PerformanceEmployment & CareerAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2021
8 points

Completely agree, especially what you said about texting. A lot of my anger with my stutter isn't about the stutter itself but what I actually wanted to say but couldn't. The regret at not being abl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2021
4 points

Sometimes I go to tell a joke, but my stutter robs all the comedic timing and phrasing out of it so people think I'm serious. It's landed me in awkward situations several times now....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & Weight
postr/StutterApr 12, 2021
26 points

Sometimes I really hate the way I speak.

Sometimes I really hate the way I speak. I don't mean the stuttering, I mean having to resort to short to-the-point sentences instead of beautiful, elegant, phrases. I mean pretending I forgot basi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2021
2 points

Well the facial movement is a coping technique (that doesn't really work). It's quite common. Things you could do is try to make the first part of the word more silent, make it so that the words flow ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterApr 12, 2021
1 points

Never make an effort. Skip the first letter or the whole word, whisper or spell it, even sing a little bit, but don't struggle. That only reinforces the stuttering habit....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational Variability
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2021
2 points

Completely relate to this.. If I plan to to be make witty jokes/statements, I've to plan ahead of time, and practice few times so I won't botch it....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterApr 11, 2021
2 points

I know the feeling. I have a lot of witty comments at times but I just don't make them because I know they will lose the effect as they come out with a stutter....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterApr 11, 2021
24 points

My sense of humor takes big blows

My sense of humor takes big blows I’m naturally a quick-witted and sarcastic person and I love to argue and joke around. My stutter obstructs around 70% of my sense of humor and charisma, and it’s ext...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterApr 11, 2021
10 points

I don't stutter when I'm alone, what's up with that?

I don't stutter when I'm alone, what's up with that? I never stuttered as a child but I grew up with a big brother and a dad who stuttered their whole lives. My brothers speech therapist warned my mom...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentExperiential Association
commentr/StutterApr 10, 2021
2 points

Wassup homie i dont know how old you are but im 24 and ive had a stutter my whole life it was horrible when i was younger i was in speech therapy and it didnt really change anything i still stutter wi...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterApr 10, 2021
6 points

I feel like having no commitment to overcome it

I feel like having no commitment to overcome it Here is the paradox. Nowadays, at the age of 24, I'm extremely aware that I have to fix this problem so that I can find a job. I mean, there is no "cons...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Helplessness & AgencyAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2021
1 points

This really speaks to me because I too have struggles with singular words/names/titles. I have subtle anxiety because I know there’s no alternative word I can use. If you struggle with your partner’s ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2021
4 points

This is a genuine stutter hack that I use often 👌...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2021
2 points

This is terrible advice. These are all very well known, well documented avoidance techniques that ultimately do more harm than good. What happens when you sing the first few sounds of a sentence and s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2021
1 points

Thx for the good wishes. Few people know I stutter because I cover it very well. I choose my words very carefully, avoid social situations I know will be unpleasant for me and have developed a whole...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2021
1 points

With DD, you can place a mobile order and pick it up inside. Totally contact free – it'll have a little receipt with your name on it in a pickup area separate from the cash registers. I do that when I...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2021
1 points

But do you also need to say like “hi I’m so and so and I have a mobile order?” I know they still have you do that at my local starbucks for example...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 9, 2021
2 points

So I'm, Sometimes I have to choose a revelant opinion to mine or just change the subject to keep the conversation forward. Tbh, Sometimes l liked stutter in somehow and feels like it's a blessing, Whe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & AngerIdentity & Self-Perception