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commentr/StutterOct 30, 2020
3 points

I attend therapy for my intense anxiety (mainly surrounding my stutter) as well as my general depression and OCD. I found ways to cope better with my anxiety, and I’m on medications that significantly...

Emotional ExperienceMeds & SubstancesTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & HopelessnessHelpful Med Outcomes+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2020
2 points

I took the IELTS 2 years ago to get into a Dutch uni. I will preface this by saying that my stutter is not that bad most of the time, I will only get stuck once in a while. I did get stuck once during...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2020
3 points

Hey, very similar experience here. I gave IELTS for studying in UK too (mechanical engineering). I was very nervous about the speaking component too. I stuttered a lot as I remembered. It depends on t...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterOct 30, 2020
21 points

Has anyone here given OET/IELTS?

Has anyone here given OET/IELTS? I need B grade/7.5 bands in all components to apply for medicine in UK. But my stutter can get really bad when I'm stressed out, so I'll probably fail at the speaking ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2020
4 points

Try deep breathing. I always do this before ordering something, be it over phone, or at the groceries. It helps massively. You will stutter a bit, but it helps keeping the anxiety in check....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2020
9 points

I went through this for a while a couple years ago. I usually didn’t have trouble and then one day I couldn’t even get anything out and I left the drive thru and called my mom in frustration. It will ...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Frustration & AngerBlocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterOct 29, 2020
21 points

Drive thrus are no longer do-able :(

Drive thrus are no longer do-able :( I get so embarrassed in the drive thru. My brain instantly freezes. It’s so embarrassing. My boyfriend understands and thankful is very empathetic. But oh my god I...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentFeared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2020
1 points

i am an introvert so i don't really talk to much, stuttering made me anxious and it changed me completely it kinda gave me depression...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & HopelessnessIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterOct 29, 2020
17 points

Literally me everyday. 4 times a day for 4 sessions of zoom online classes. I was wondering how enduring so much anxiety and stress everyday will affect my health in the long run.

Literally me everyday. 4 times a day for 4 sessions of zoom online classes. I was wondering how enduring so much anxiety and stress everyday will affect my health in the long run. ...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2020
1 points

For me it's a compination of my severe social anxiety and the fear of my stuttering....

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2020
2 points

It's so frustrating because I'm even stuttering in moments i should be relaxed in and enjoy... really brings me down :( I used to be funny and make people laugh, and I evaluated myself so much by thos...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2020
2 points

great question. i'm an adult now but thinking back on when i struggled most, i would plan my words ahead more and have anxiety more before speaking but my core was always a boy who was extroverted. th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2020
2 points

It's really annoying because I used to be completely fluent when I read aloud. Then one fateful day I got the fear "but what if it happens this time?" and BOOM. Can't read fluently anymore....

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2020
15 points

My experience is very much the same. It can be a real confidence killer when you've been doing well and then suddenly I can't speak properly again....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 27, 2020
1 points

I absolutely get it. I block on my birth year during medical interviews - to which I say uh a lot while I wait for the block to release - to which people think I’m lying lol. I’m a firefighter who h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 27, 2020
1 points

This is a very stressful situation believe me I have been in that situation countless times. I still sound like ummmmm h-h-h-iii my my my n-n-am-m-me is Aaaaa-llllll-issssss-ooonnn. You did what you ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterOct 27, 2020
1 points

"You're breaking up" "no I have a stutter" "oh okay" is how most phone calls go for me...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 27, 2020
4 points

Hi! Previous research has largely focused on listener reactions to self-disclosure statements. For example, listeners are more likely to assign positive character traits such as friendliness to adults...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
postr/StutterOct 27, 2020
3 points

What do you work with/want to work with?

What do you work with/want to work with? Before I start, sorry for my English it's not my first language. I'm studying to become a librarian. I have worked at a library the last 3 summers and I real...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentPropositionality & Weight
commentr/StutterOct 27, 2020
1 points

I also get uncomfortably anxious right before speaking into the phone which causes really bad blocks. I've generally tried to slow down and breathe through it but nothing has really seemed to work....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment