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postr/StutterFeb 16, 2025
5 points

Anyone else experience this viscous cycle?

Anyone else experience this viscous cycle? I’m a covert stutterer for the most part. For as long as I can remember people always told me that to overcome or accept my stuttering I just needed to put m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2025
2 points

Strangely for me it’s the opposite. When I put myself out there and manage to be fluent, the more fluent I become. Whereas if I put myself out there and stutter, the shame reinforces it and then I nee...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2025
3 points

The big question! I thought about this so many times, it’s ridiculous. Part of me sees the glory: I’d be an actress! A comedian! The most interesting person at the party! But then I truly think what I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2025
8 points

In my experience, the more i avoid speaking out of embarrassment/convenience/shame, the more disfluent i become, like a spiraling effect. The more i say “screw it” and put myself out there regardless ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2025
1 points

I try more and more, I speak and approach others with or without stuttering, I talk about it openly and I try more and more to let go, but I have the impression that the energy I spend trying to do al...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 16, 2025
4 points

I'm experiencing exactly the same scenario you're describing. I've been wondering however if part of what im experiencing as worse stuttering, is me having the confidence to try and say how I feel on...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2025
91 points

“yUo dON’t SoUNd sO bAD wHaT’S ThE sTReSs AbOuT??” People don’t understand how much work it is to pass as fluent. They walk on a sidewalk while we walk in deep mud and maintain their pace....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 12, 2025
3 points

Hi! I'm a Speech Language Pathologist, and I think you did a fantastic job with your presentation. Did you stutter? Yes, but you stuttered very naturally, it didn't seem like there was a lot of pressu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsTherapy & Professional
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling OthersPositive Therapy Techniques
postr/StutterFeb 12, 2025
13 points

My stutter review

My stutter review https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vhY3kYXH_5k I have uploaded an unlisted youtube video, i recently had to do a challenge in which we were asked to do any type of presentation. This w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+2 more
postr/StutterFeb 12, 2025
9 points

I'm tired

I'm tired I'm just tired... It is not stuttering itself that's making me tired, it is the mental effort I exert everyday to speak as normal as possible. When I became 17 years old (I'm 21 now), I thou...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringEnergy & Biological Rhythms+1 more
postr/StutterFeb 11, 2025
0 points

Looking to hear about your experiences: How do you use visual or multi-modal communication, such as AI speech recognition and translation, while navigating stuttering?What needs to be improved?

Looking to hear about your experiences: How do you use visual or multi-modal communication, such as AI speech recognition and translation, while navigating stuttering?What needs to be improved? Hey ev...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 11, 2025
1 points

Oh yes, been there too. I'm a nervous wreck almost always, actually😂 Got a great job, though. When my boss started interviewing me, I immediately warned him about my stutter and asked to not to pay a...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
-3 points

Clearly they’re already in a meeting with important people. At this point they should just be able to hide their stutter and fly under the radar. It’s literally on them at this point, like they should...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
1 points

im not super open about it and ive only met the mom a handful of times. i think i am just going to have to try my best to be confident and still talk to people tbh...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
1 points

I’ve accommodated myself by picking jobs that don’t require me to be extremely talkative or don’t place an immense amount of importance on speech. Why would you wanna go to work stressed everyday? T...

School & WorkAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
19 points

My 2 cents: Venting is good. However, find an online stuttering group, a speech therapist, a life coach, or other entity or community to help you address your feelings toward your stutter. I'm 54,...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PrideHiding & ConcealmentValidation & Empathy+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
3 points

This is a fascinating article because it reminds me so much of bouts I went through with stuttering. Duda basically had lost his confidence because the bad so heavily outweighed the good. He may hav...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
5 points

Hey There! I'm 21 so in a similar boat to you, age wise and can totally sympathise with you about all those social situations you were speaking about. I think for me what was most important was let...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
4 points

As a 40 year old who's been stuttering since 4 years old, let me tell you, stutter is not ruining you, you think it is, but it's actually a gift from God. I have a similar stutter pattern, there's a l...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+1 more
postr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
37 points

My stutter is ruining me

My stutter is ruining me I feel like venting a little bit, i have the type of stutter where i get blocks on certain words, i litterally can not say the sound of the word without sounding super stupid....

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more