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postr/StutterMay 27, 2021
8 points

Anybody else feel really uncomfortable at bars?

Anybody else feel really uncomfortable at bars? Especially when going up and ordering a drink. For me, the stuttering gets so much worse. It’s probably one of my bigger anxieties. I haven’t been to on...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2021
2 points

Yea I’m pretty sure every stutterer knows that, I just didn’t have the word so a just used “get rid”...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2021
3 points

In the 38 years of day in and day out stuttering, it never occurred to me to just “think about what I’m going to say before I say it”....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2021
10 points

My mom and alot of my relatives used to stutter and “freed” themselves from it, so i know it”s possible. But im 23 and have been trying everything and this shit is hard lol. There’s a youtuber named S...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Genetic & Family FactorsAvoidance & SubstitutionEnergy & Biological Rhythms+1 more
postr/StutterMay 27, 2021
6 points

Hi! How do you guys manage your stutter when having online classes? I always fear too much what others might think about the way I sound and not focus on the idea I wanna express, but at the same time, I feel ashamed for not being more vocal..

Hi! How do you guys manage your stutter when having online classes? I always fear too much what others might think about the way I sound and not focus on the idea I wanna express, but at the same time...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMay 27, 2021
1 points

Hi! How do you guys manage your stutter in online classes? Any tips? I always feel bad for not being more vocal but I tend too think too much about what others might think related to the way I sound, not what I’m trying to express

Hi! How do you guys manage your stutter in online classes? Any tips? I always feel bad for not being more vocal but I tend too think too much about what others might think related to the way I sound, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2021
4 points

I understand what you are going through. If you don’t write, maybe consider journaling something everyday. Sometimes it feels good to just get your thoughts ‘out there’....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionPersonal Stories
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2021
1 points

Speaking a second language my stutter got a lot worse too, unfortunately...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterMay 27, 2021
45 points

I would prefer to be mute

I would prefer to be mute I know this can sound somewhat controversial or exaggerated but, stuttering can be so exhausting, putting aside all the anxiety problems and that stuff, sometimes i start fee...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 27, 2021
1 points

I do stutter when speaking in my native , but with English it's worse. In this groups description, Discord group is linked, I highly suggest joining it. If ever feel brave enough, you can try voice-ch...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMay 26, 2021
2 points

I don’t stutter in my native language but when I speak English I stutter quite a lot, need to look for a job and it’s really stressful. Feeling unmotivated. Any tips?

I don’t stutter in my native language but when I speak English I stutter quite a lot, need to look for a job and it’s really stressful. Feeling unmotivated. Any tips? [deleted]...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
postr/StutterMay 26, 2021
4 points

I have a few slides to cover in my first graduate school group presentation this evening. Do you guys want me to record it and share?

I have a few slides to cover in my first graduate school group presentation this evening. Do you guys want me to record it and share? I practiced it 20 times and I know I will still stutter. But I wan...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionPersonal Stories+1 more
commentr/StutterMay 26, 2021
0 points

I have the same problem as yours. In the end, I decided to not share my opinions. This world doesn't even care about them, I keep them inside. It's hard to find a good listener these days in the mide...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyLoneliness & Isolation
postr/StutterMay 26, 2021
3 points

Always think I’m not going to be taken seriously.

Always think I’m not going to be taken seriously. So I did a few posts a while ago about my stutter when it was relatively new. Over time I’ve grown to accept that it’s just a part of me. And I see a ...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
postr/StutterMay 26, 2021
4 points

blocking more again

blocking more again my blocking got worse again :/ I have 3 presentations in the next 3 days, 2 of them will definitely be in the same week, maybe even the third one. and I'm so scared. my stutter is ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 26, 2021
4 points

It seems like that's how you want it to be if you've made it to 31 and haven't figured out how to do for yourself. What's going to happen when your Mom's not able to do that for you anymore? You don't...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMay 26, 2021
2 points

yes, several was the wrong word for me to use. i dont speak english as a native language, so these words for indefinite numbers are rather confusing. i talk with two such people, both of which i met h...

Community & SupportAnticipation & Avoidance
Validation & EmpathyAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMay 26, 2021
1 points

This is really sad, and I apologise. I once walked into a McDonald's to order something. Right off the bat I got the sensation that my stutter was going to be in overdrive mode. I just took out a pe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMay 26, 2021
1 points

When I was in highschool, we had to tell our grades to the teacher loud after an exam, so she could register them into the teacher's book (or I don't know the exact name for that book). I always found...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterMay 25, 2021
17 points

An Awkward and uncomfortable situation...

An Awkward and uncomfortable situation... today was my moms birthday and we went out to eat. My mom my grandpa and our neighbor decided to tag along with us to go out to eat for her birthday My mom ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more