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commentr/StutterJun 7, 2021
3 points

Sometimes I do, but just don't talk. Or just utter phrases I know I won't block too badly on. As a rule of thumb though, if you can stutter less than 10% of your words and don't do it too badly, no on...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterJun 6, 2021
47 points

So fucking frustrated

So fucking frustrated This is just a rant. I had to read aloud in front of the class. I stuttered like crazy. Then after a few lines, I began picking up confidence but I was still shaking. From a 8/10...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2021
1 points

Try to purposely skip the "d" sound. You can also try to connect the word with D in them to the previous word/words. For example: Instead of "The total is twenty dollars" try to make the sentence one ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2021
1 points

I tend to substitute these trigger words for words of the same meaning that I know I am comfortable in saying, which I know it's avoiding matters, but maybe when you settle into your job a bit more an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2021
1 points

Pushing through it is the only way my man. It sucks in the moment and is embarrassing but that’s how I’ve been dealing with mine....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2021
2 points

I've tried to do that too. But since I have a blockage stutter. It doesn't really work. What works is that slight movement you do with your hand or arm. It helps a lot but I'm really trying to stop do...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Physical TensionAvoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2021
4 points

I just look on the bright side, man. Sometimes my blockage when I try to tell a joke becomes a joke itself which saves me the hassel of needing to tell a full joke lol....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2021
2 points

1. You are very brave for accepting a talking job Whilst having a stutter 2. Try attending speech therapy, I am at the moment and it’s really working. They give you some helpful tactics to use 3. If ...

School & WorkTherapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & Avoidance
Employment & CareerSeeking TherapyAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2021
3 points

I think the speech therapist term for this is 'smooth speech' or something, but it just means try and blend the first word into the next. I find it helps me speak on the phone. With a word like dolla...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2021
7 points

I used to be a cashier and had the same problems. I stuttered alot first 2 months but after that I got better because I didnt care if I stuttered saying those words anymore. If you can, dont care if y...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation
postr/StutterJun 5, 2021
19 points

First shift answering phone calls

First shift answering phone calls First time posting here but I really need some help. I've got myself my first job at a pizza shop nearby and I found out I will be answering phone calls on my first...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 5, 2021
2 points

That's exactly what I mean. You likely focus more on articulating the accent, which distracts from stuttering....

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Situational VariabilityAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJun 5, 2021
1 points

What do you mean? I do talk slower as I have to focus on how to pronounce words as Americans do, whereas all that goes out the window when I'm excited or talking naturally(which is a mix of my Indian ...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Situational VariabilityAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterJun 5, 2021
3 points

As a non-native English speaker, what's a brief, free resource on how to get my accent and fluency up to a "good enough" level similar to how foreign dignitaries speak?

As a non-native English speaker, what's a brief, free resource on how to get my accent and fluency up to a "good enough" level similar to how foreign dignitaries speak? Hi there, I am a 30 year old ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
postr/StutterJun 5, 2021
10 points

I'm removed from clinical rotation ... when stutter can cause danger&death.

I'm removed from clinical rotation ... when stutter can cause danger&death. I'm stutter, also not good at English speaking skills. My voice's really quiet. I have major depression and anxiety. I s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 5, 2021
1 points

Thank you so much! Yeah as my speech therapist said, stuttering is just a small portion of who we are and at most, I don't see myself taking like over half an hour to complete somebody's orders or som...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Identity & Self-PerceptionAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterJun 4, 2021
5 points

Apprehensive about getting my first job, any advice?

Apprehensive about getting my first job, any advice? So over the summer, I want to get my first job (retail), but I am concerned about the company not hiring me because I stutter a lot with people I d...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
postr/StutterJun 4, 2021
5 points

How has/have your work experiences been with a stutter?

How has/have your work experiences been with a stutter? I start my first ever job tomorrow, and I am very nervous about how my stutter will interfere. It’s as a parking lot attendant at a fine arts mu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJun 4, 2021
15 points

What's the right words to disclose I have a stutter to the work manager?

What's the right words to disclose I have a stutter to the work manager? Hi all! So for a long time, I've always wanted to do far more to put myself out there even if I do have a stutter. With my exce...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 4, 2021
1 points

It is a fun novelty, I used to use weed for similar reasons, if I stammered while high, I could pass it off as just me being a bit slow due to being high, or as an excuse for rarely talking. Its a sli...

Meds & SubstancesAnticipation & Avoidance
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Avoidance & Substitution