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commentr/StutterOct 10, 2025
26 points

My girlfriend thought my stutter was cute and was amazed at how sociable I was despite it. Some people like the runner up that's out there doing their thing despite the disadvantage....

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commentr/StutterOct 10, 2025
8 points

It’s kinda true but it’s equally difficult to approach someone in the first place. My ex used to say my stutter is “cutesy” and especially whenever I’m explaining something I’m super “cutesy”...

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postr/StutterOct 10, 2025
159 points

This Post Is For The Guys Who Say They Can’t Date Because Of Their Stutter…..

This Post Is For The Guys Who Say They Can’t Date Because Of Their Stutter….. I just want to share this screenshot with you guys. I know a lot of guys don’t want to date because of their insecurity wi...

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commentr/StutterOct 10, 2025
4 points

Also married to a stutterer. 100% ENDORSE! Also, I LOVE that bar name SO much. My view, not having had a stutter but having lived with my husband for 35 years and watched our younger son learn, w...

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commentr/StutterOct 10, 2025
6 points

I agree The anxiety of fearing to stutter and not speaking perfect actually is the problem. Non-stutterer maybe stutter less than 2% of the time and stutter maybe stutter 2-10% of the time. Just a...

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commentr/StutterOct 10, 2025
5 points

Thanks for sharing your story. Shows that stuttering shouldn't be a blocker for a happy life or your dreams! >"We dated, moved in, got married, adopted a dog and cat and a daughter..." Please dont ...

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commentr/StutterOct 9, 2025
2 points

I recently left my barista job at Starbucks, but my coworkers were overwhelmingly accepting and my one shift manager literally had a bachelors in speech pathology and had a really heartfelt one-on-one...

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commentr/StutterOct 9, 2025
14 points

It was my pleasure. I asked his permission & I’m happy he said it was ok to share. I truly feel hurt thinking ppl would be so shallow to overlook anyone for a stammer, like talking sucks ass tbh so to...

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commentr/StutterOct 9, 2025
2 points

A lot of girls think it’s cute…. That’s just my experience. Depends on your level of fluency I guess but send it. Confidence in yourself shows a lot....

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commentr/StutterOct 9, 2025
4 points

yeah!! my boyfriend actually finds it cute. he wanted to beat up everyone who has ever made fun of me haha...

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commentr/StutterOct 9, 2025
4 points

This. Known my wife 21 years (dated dice, married 16), and she always said it was never an issue to her. If they like you as a person, it won’t matter....

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commentr/StutterOct 9, 2025
2 points

I really appreciate you getting back to me and sharing your story. I fully understand the need to prioritise those whose stutter is much more debilitating and this is how I was when I was a lot younge...

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commentr/StutterOct 9, 2025
2 points

I managed to see a speech therapist at an NHS a couple of years ago. I slipped through the waiting list somehow, but in this area the waiting list is years! It could be different in your area. The th...

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commentr/StutterOct 9, 2025
24 points

If that girl likes you it won't matter. I've been married over 13 years and sometimes when I block my whole face has spasms. Don't let your stutter get in your way of happiness. If a girl truly likes ...

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commentr/StutterOct 9, 2025
22 points

She probably thinks your stutter is cute and makes you vulnerable and genuine. My past girlfriends all said my stutter was one of the things that attracted them to me. I also went to my high school r...

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commentr/StutterOct 9, 2025
1 points

But you don’t stutter now? That sounds like a developmental stutter. Which is, I believe more common than a brain defect which causes life long stuttering. Which I have. I went to speech therapy in mi...

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commentr/StutterOct 9, 2025
2 points

I second this comment. You either do or you don’t, if it is we a developmental stutter as a kid, that was fixed with speech therapy, okay I get it, you used to stutter. But when it’s not a development...

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commentr/StutterOct 9, 2025
2 points

I know many people had a developmental stutter as a kid and I don’t mean to minimize their success, and I like to give people the benefit of the doubt, but sometimes my gut just tells me “you’re full ...

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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2025
1 points

I’ve been through this for many years, it’s so embarrassing. But the good news is you don’t have to stutter. please please please - check out Lee Lovett’s program based on the neuroscience method. I s...

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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2025
1 points

I never said that. It’s the fact that you’re blaming it entirely on the stutterer’s fault instead of the people around them. Sometimes pity can actually be a great thing, coming from experience. It m...

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