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postr/StutterMar 12, 2021
61 points

just been laughed at

just been laughed at most of the time I'm okay with my stammer. people who dont like it fuck em but when every single person u meet is a miserable piece of shit and dont want anything to do with u bec...

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postr/StutterMar 11, 2021
29 points

Landed a job. Don't be anxious about interviews like I was

Landed a job. Don't be anxious about interviews like I was One of the many worries I had related to my stutter was job interviews. Finally done with school, then grad school, I couldn't prolong it any...

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postr/StutterMar 11, 2021
1 points

New twist to my stutter: Typing in teams chat and texting.

New twist to my stutter: Typing in teams chat and texting. TL:DR It seems like increased electronic communication requirements for work are bringing out my stutter as I type. I don't really know what...

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commentr/StutterMar 11, 2021
2 points

Hi! My second language is also English, and I moved to the US 2,5 years ago, I am in high school. In the last two years my English improved a lot, but when it comes to talking I sometimes just can’t g...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2021
1 points

Thats true, but the problem is when I fail, my confidence I built for 2 weeks just collapses and I go to a phase of a way worse stutter I dont like failing and that really impacts me, especially bein...

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commentr/StutterMar 11, 2021
4 points

I feel like if he's going to mock your stutter then it almost most certainly speaks volumes that he'll be the type to already or in future, mock other disabilities or vulnerable groups of people. Like...

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commentr/StutterMar 11, 2021
-1 points

God, I really do feel for him. Having to go wait a little longer every time he wishes to talk to you.....

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postr/StutterMar 11, 2021
5 points

Stutter in Second Language

Stutter in Second Language I'm an international student in the U.S and started my Master of Computer Science program about 2 years ago. I moved to the U.S when my English was in a good state and enoug...

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commentr/StutterMar 11, 2021
6 points

I am in complete shock that your PARTNER of all people would do that to you. This is beyond unacceptable behavior for any relationship - it’s completely irrelevant how long you have been together or h...

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commentr/StutterMar 10, 2021
8 points

There are many reasonable people commenting on this and I would consider myself a very reasonable person. However, if someone that I love and trust mocked me because of my stutter, especially if you'v...

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postr/StutterMar 10, 2021
9 points

Why aren't there more effective treatments for stuttering?

Why aren't there more effective treatments for stuttering? I'm 14 and I've been struggling with this shit my entire life and I fucking hate it, I can't socialize worth a damn. i barely have any friend...

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commentr/StutterMar 10, 2021
14 points

I’ve had lots of friends that brought up the “imagine having to deal with that whenever I talk to you!!” Shit. I’m not saying you should do anything specifically but I will tell you that none of thes...

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commentr/StutterMar 10, 2021
7 points

yikes that’s pretty manipulative :/ he showed his true colors and may have regretted it but it’s still very immature to consider the thought of “dealing with” another persons stutter when it’s not som...

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commentr/StutterMar 10, 2021
13 points

Yikes, I would say if he doesn't come around within a week or so I would highly consider leaving. It feels like he's been waiting to say this you for a while and finally had the opportunity to when it...

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commentr/StutterMar 10, 2021
8 points

I'm going to go ahead and assume your boyfriend is not a horrible person per se, but that he doesn't quite understand how not okay that was. Have you explicitly talked to him about this before? It r...

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commentr/StutterMar 10, 2021
31 points

So sorry to hear about this. I would sit down with your partner and tell them how you really feel and tell them this has made you consider leaving them. If they want you in their life, they will apolo...

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postr/StutterMar 10, 2021
4 points

School

School Hi I don’t really know how to start this but I’m going back to school next week and over lockdown my stutter has gotten a lot worse and my classmates didn’t really know because I used to either...

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commentr/StutterMar 10, 2021
1 points

Same thing happened to me today, I had a interview and it was on zoom, and the intensity with which I stuttered today was very severe. And when I was practicing I was very fluent....

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commentr/StutterMar 10, 2021
1 points

Honestly I lied, there was only one person who I went on a date with and everything looked fine, but at the end of the day I texted her that "I had fun and I'd like to see you again" and she replied t...

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commentr/StutterMar 10, 2021
1 points

Damn the fact that people actually got mad at u for ”wasting their time” really makes me never wanna meet anyone. Why are people like this...

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