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commentr/StutterApr 1, 2021
2 points

Surely this would indicate speech anxiety rather than a lack of ability to speak. I work in the Uk Police force and for example when I say O66 as a call sign, in the car with my colleague. It is clear...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/FlightPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2021
4 points

I wish I had the confidence at age 18 to tackle stuttering head on instead of doing everything I could to avoid speaking. Good on you, and you should be proud of yourself, and you seem to have a good ...

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commentr/StutterApr 1, 2021
7 points

No, you would not. The negative memories and the fear of stuttering is why you do it now. Getting rid of the negativity is one of the keys to fluency....

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commentr/StutterApr 1, 2021
7 points

Never allow the fear of embarrassment due to a stutter stop you from expressing yourself, this is coming from an older person who wished that I could have been more expressive when I was younger. Beca...

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commentr/StutterApr 1, 2021
1 points

Well it's normal to get really emotional when you don't feel understood. Situations like that still frustrate me to no end, but I have to remind myself that they just don't know, and why would they. T...

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postr/StutterApr 1, 2021
4 points

Should I quit my University debating team because of my stutter?

Should I quit my University debating team because of my stutter? (I originally posted this on r/Advice, but I though it'd be better suited here) (New to reddit, apologies if this is in the wrong plac...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2021
5 points

I know you’re right. I’ve been too emotional to be logical about this. More than likely, these people have never come across a stutterer in their life. Of course they come to these conclusions. I re...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterApr 1, 2021
2 points

Interview

Interview I just had an interview for my software internship and I was stuttering so bad I couldnt keep my thoughts together. Hopefully it won't affect their decision....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterApr 1, 2021
24 points

“She needs to work on her talking skills.”

“She needs to work on her talking skills.” Overheard a coworker saying this. I’m not totally sure if it was about me but I don’t know who else it could be about. Anyway, I was so hurt and angry that...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2021
1 points

This is what helped me, I would strike up a conversation with a very beautiful woman. It put me on cool mode and made me relax in return allowed me to practice taking my time talking. It also built up...

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Hope & MotivationAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2021
2 points

A tip that’s been pretty successful for me when I remember to do it is to start exhaling before you start speaking. So you get the airflow going and that makes the word onsets easier, if that makes se...

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commentr/StutterMar 31, 2021
1 points

Just because u have a bad stutter and they dont, doesnt mean they cant be socially anxious...

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commentr/StutterMar 31, 2021
1 points

I dont have a speech impediment but when Im anxious I do stutter and I hate it so to everyone who deals with that on a daily basis, your all fucking kings and queens and to anyone who isnt male or f...

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commentr/StutterMar 31, 2021
6 points

Same. Lower possibility of promotion (depending on the nature of job). Feels like the odd one out in the group. Anxious or come across as drunk all the time, tired of embarrassing moments. Everyday is...

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postr/StutterMar 31, 2021
19 points

RANT

RANT Ok I’m sorry if I come across negative, having one them days. Anyone here feel that they get paid less then others in their jobs compared to other coworkers even though you work harder than them...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterMar 31, 2021
8 points

Anyone in the UX/UI design field? Seeking some career advice

Anyone in the UX/UI design field? Seeking some career advice I've been going through a career change after quitting my boring, mindless, repetitive job in data analysis about a year ago. Went through ...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2021
1 points

My social anxiety is completely independent of my stutter, so I see your hate and shrug. Feeling better for venting?...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2021
3 points

I know it can be annoying, but a few people have told me theystuttered at some point in their life, usually a low point for them and it was caused by anxiety or somethingX I just look at it like they ...

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Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2021
2 points

My stuttering got less and less once I hit college and moved into my 20s. I attribute it to losing some of that teenaged anxiety. Something I’ve found that helps with phone calls is to have a notepad ...

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commentr/StutterMar 31, 2021
2 points

Vent away! I don't think we have enough outlets to get our frustrations about our stutters out. I will say though, as a socially anxious person who just happens to have a stutter (they're not related)...

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Frustration & AngerAnxiety & Social JudgmentValidation & Empathy+1 more