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commentr/StutterApr 4, 2021
3 points

I’ve had thats same feeling dawg. I wanna walk up to people and talk to them but the minute I stutter, the entire mood of the convo changes and it’s so nerve racking. I announce that I have a stutter ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 4, 2021
0 points

No, I just make sure my reality aligns with the current version that is going on in the world we presently live in. So there’s no confusion doing that even if my belief system has to change as it ha...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterApr 4, 2021
5 points

Does anyone genuinely know how to meet people/form actual friendships at college during COVID?

Does anyone genuinely know how to meet people/form actual friendships at college during COVID? I know it's already hard to meet people during COVID for the average person but I feel it's even harder f...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Friendships & BelongingAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterApr 4, 2021
3 points

I'm anxious about my stutter when I stream on Twitch

I'm anxious about my stutter when I stream on Twitch So, recently I started streaming, I have no problem with the streaming itself but everytime I notice that I stutter my brain just instantly goes "O...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 4, 2021
2 points

But what if acceptance leads to a more relaxed mentality? Anxiety doesn’t cause stuttering of course but I think for most of us, it definitely plays a role in how bad it is. If you let go of that anxi...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 4, 2021
2 points

This one is useful, thanks buddy. But it is difficult for me when I am near the girls, the adrenaline starts pumping and you know the rest. Anyway I'll try to see them as normal person and talk to the...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterApr 4, 2021
8 points

One way to cope is to try and not think of girls exclusively as girls, but just regular people. I end up stuttering way more when I fixate on how pretty a girl is when talking to her. If I can just ...

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commentr/StutterApr 3, 2021
3 points

Most dreadful moment when asked to speak randomly. Also 4th, people can't understand stage fear is different that stuttering....

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterApr 3, 2021
17 points

How do you guys speak to girls?

How do you guys speak to girls? The thought of that I would eventually stutter during a regular conversation pulls me back and I don't wanna initiate any conversation with them. Sometimes I would like...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2021
8 points

I can tolerate any of these except the third one, having to talk Infront of the class, it's torturous, feels like mental harassment, on top of that people trying to hide their laughs and giggles....

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2021
2 points

No people look at you like your dumb. I know the feeling, they kinda turn their head and squint there eyes just waiting and people make it super awkward to talk sometimes. But you aren’t dumb my fr...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2021
3 points

I used to care waaaay to much about what people thought of my stutter, but this is how I go about it. People can’t please everyone, so as a stutter you shouldn’t push your self to hard to have a flow...

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Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2021
1 points

From 15 to 19 years old (currently) I've worked as a cashier in a grocery store, and I think it has really truly tought me a lot about speaking with strangers. At first, the occasional laugh hurt my f...

School & WorkIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeStigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2021
1 points

Yep. We also have to internalize the fact that some people are just straight up assholes. Like, yes; we’ll get bad reactions to our stutter at times. But we really shouldn’t use it to fuel insecuritie...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2021
3 points

Firstly, i appreciate the sincerity of your comment. But for some, like me, the reality is not that simple. For instance, talking on the phone is a near impossibility for me, so anything to do with p...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2021
7 points

All these replies are just plain sad, I don’t even know how are people supposed to fight a stutter when all this negative comments are flying around... You can be the person you want anytime, but real...

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commentr/StutterApr 3, 2021
3 points

Okay, as a fellow 21 year old stutterer, let me give you some advice. Screw what anyone else thinks sbout you. Live the life you wanna live. Don't be ashamed to stutter your ass off. If anyone has an...

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commentr/StutterApr 3, 2021
1 points

It was just “oh ok yeah, thanks for telling us” lol. About what happened the day before, it became pretty clear that they weren’t actually talking about me. 😅 I didn’t mention it specifically but I d...

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commentr/StutterApr 2, 2021
1 points

Thank you, it's really difficult. I'll try my best, so that it doesn't get me. But when people look at me, as if I'm a dumbass who can't even speak - I can't help, but feel like shit. But I'll try. &...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2021
2 points

Short answer - No. Don't let someone else tell you what you can and can't do. And don't worry about embarrassing the University. You don't owe the university anything. If you quit because of fear, you...

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