No, I just make sure my reality aligns with the current version that is going on in the world we presently live in. So there’s no confusion doing that even if my belief system has to change as it has so many times especially with women. You guaranteed him if she isn’t cool about his stutter she’s not a keeper.... The issue isn’t him stuttering it’s about if he thinks he is in her league or not. However saying what you said to him shatters his confidence even more. I can show you many men who don’t stutter that suffer from confidence issues and realityism, can’t even work up the energy to approach any woman. I’m just a messenger