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commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
2 points

My father thought that im not honest , he always want confirmation from other people while I'm say the same thing  The same with mother while she know i stutter badly when i talk about problem i remem...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & BullyingExperiential Association
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
2 points

Yeah… I mean it’s such a demoralizing conversation. I’m not comfortable talking to anyone at this point, especially with my stutter, I honestly feel like the world is better off if I STFU 😂...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness
postr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
31 points

Teams meeting embarrassment

Teams meeting embarrassment I was in a Teams (aka zoom) meeting today. I work for a nonprofit but my job is funded by the DOI so I work closely with them. We were in a meeting discussing our potential...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
2 points

I’m sick of being unemployed but stuttering makes me look at bad interviews 😭...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
3 points

This is a fascinating article because it reminds me so much of bouts I went through with stuttering. Duda basically had lost his confidence because the bad so heavily outweighed the good. He may hav...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
37 points

My stutter is ruining me

My stutter is ruining me I feel like venting a little bit, i have the type of stutter where i get blocks on certain words, i litterally can not say the sound of the word without sounding super stupid....

Speech & StutteringEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
1 points

I've been accused by professors during High school to fake a stutter only to take a D. So It wasn't very logic if you think about it...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
1 points

Oh yeah I was staying silent in many situations. When I was "questioned", remaining silent never occurred to me as an option. The issue was that I was generally nervous in many social situations due ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
4 points

Not directly of lying but "hiding something" multiple times. As a kid my bag was searched regularly by the supermarket's security guard, I guess because I looked nervous (looking nervous = nervous bec...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
4 points

Yes but that's because sometimes even tho I'm telling the truth, I think about sounding truthfully which does the opposite and makes me laugh. When I start to laugh everyone thinks that I'm lying even...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
5 points

Recent mental strain of my stutter

Recent mental strain of my stutter I’m not fully sure why but very recently (only the last couple-few months) my stutter has been on my mind and taunting me for large amounts of my day a lot more than...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencySadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2025
9 points

Yes, all the time when I was a kid. My parents had no chill and when I hesitated they accused me of lying. Sometimes i switched a sentence halfway because of my stutter. I understand it sounds sketchy...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterFeb 9, 2025
11 points

Anticipation & Fear

Anticipation & Fear Hi! I’m a 22F who stutters. I started stuttering whenever I was 10. I’ll never ever forget the day. I was in English class and we were doing popcorn reading. At the time I loved to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2025
2 points

It is. There’s no hiding it either. When I was 18, my boyfriend’s mom had referred me to work at a hair salon. When I was interviewed, the lady- who was part owner in the salon next to her husband- sa...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2025
2 points

I totally get ya, I'm the same, in fact I try to avoid family, work or any social gatherings.. I just hate sitting there not been able to join in and enjoy myself, I'm always on edge and full of a...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2025
2 points

I just cant handle the embarrassment right now, its my wife's family so i dont think alot of them know i stutter. Sigh...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2025
2 points

Today I learnt a new word trying to give you an asnwer: **AVERSION** In this context, is the desire of something **not** to happen. For me is all about that. The problem is not to have desires. We al...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2025
1 points

Happened to when I had a connecting from New York. I was traveling from Canada. The immigration officer asked me a question and I stuttered bad but I kept a mask on so no one could see my stupid face....

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Listener ReactionsAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterFeb 6, 2025
6 points

Stuttering in an abusive household

Stuttering in an abusive household I just feel like putting this out in the world tonight. It is midnight where I am, and I had quite a day at work. I work for a high profile financial institution. To...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Trauma & PsychologicalStigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2025
4 points

this is the wrong reddit group, please go somewhere else to take out your fustration. I know that guy is also in wrong position for other bad social behaviours but stuttering is not in his control. ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStigma & BullyingSuicidal Ideation & High Distress+2 more