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commentr/StutterMay 7, 2024
10 points

Met one in college. Super cool person. Hers was worse than mine. She would preface presentations about her stutter, encouraging me to do the same. Made me stutter less....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 6, 2024
8 points

Question: Did you disclose first? I bombed so many job interviews because I was more focused on my speech until I started disclosing, and then it became easier because NOW that I got it out there,...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2024
2 points

My dad Sutters too. I am a 42 year old woman who still stutters. I've accepted it now and tell people which actually lessens it. I have one 4 year old son who doesn't stutter and a 17 month old girl w...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 4, 2024
1 points

Damn, this not being able to Express your whole personality also scares me, although I might tell my friends that I struggle with stuttering. I always thought I don't have ti tell my friends but it b...

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commentr/StutterMay 4, 2024
4 points

I met a woman at a work event who stuttered. Mine sometimes is worse and sometimes barely there. I think it’s related to stress for me. She said up front while talking that she has a stutter. I told ...

Social & RelationshipsCauses & Variability
Disclosure & Telling OthersStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2024
2 points

As a girl, not really. Never had an issue finding a partner, or rather, having a partner find me. I just disclose it early on and so far no one has had a problem with it. It's really okay....

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Disclosure & Telling OthersDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2024
2 points

Thank you for the tip! I hope I wont have to disclose customers all the time but I do disclose to coworekrs and people I see all the time. (Also water engineer sounds so cool)...

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Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2024
2 points

It wasn't too much of a deal breaker for me although I did have a few dates go bad when I encountered a block or something. As long as you're honest with the person it should be okay....

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Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2024
2 points

No, as a woman who dates woman I never had an issue, I always disclose that yes I do have a stutter incase that makes someone uncomfortable or they just don't wanna date someone with a stutter and if ...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2024
2 points

No, as a woman who dates woman I never had an issue, I always disclose that yes I do have a stutter incase that makes someone uncomfortable or they just don't wanna date someone with a stutter and if ...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2024
3 points

No, as a woman who dates woman I never had an issue, I always disclose that yes I do have a stutter incase that makes someone uncomfortable or they just don't wanna date someone with a stutter and if ...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2024
3 points

If you meet a girl you like just talk to her, stutter be damned. Girls, for the most part, don't care about things like that. Eventually, anyone who knows you longer than 5 minutes is gonna know that ...

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commentr/StutterMay 2, 2024
9 points

So don't approach in person. Make the initial connection through a dating app. And then you can bring up your stutter through text, to soften that blow. And if they stick around to meet you IRL, they ...

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commentr/StutterApr 30, 2024
2 points

Another tip - Disclose! Disclose! Disclose! Don’t leave people guessing on why you’re getting stuck. It will only make you more anxious. Just tell them you stutter and take all the time you need....

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Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 30, 2024
5 points

When I first met my husband I stuttered so badly on my name, but just told him “I have a stutter, so that’s why I’m getting stuck” and he never batted an eye. In fact, he still recounts the story as o...

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Disclosure & Telling OthersIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 30, 2024
3 points

Hi! So for this cashier position they did a group interview which stressed me out, but they ended up hiring everyone on the spot. For interviews for internships- I get really nervous and stressed. But...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterApr 30, 2024
11 points

you are wrong. the first thing I say to everyone I meet is that I stutter. I've found that either no one cares, or it endears people to me. also there have been times where women find it "safe" and "c...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2024
1 points

My brother, I’ve been married for three years and didn’t tell her I had a stutter until before we got engaged. She loves me so much she doesn’t give a shit. Hope it goes well for you....

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Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 28, 2024
6 points

I’ve never had a girl who had a problem with my stutter. In fact almost all of them find it kind of cute. I think mentioning it early on takes off a lot of stress...

Social & Relationships
Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2024
7 points

If you can tell, just tell. They usually fine with it. Keep in mind they might give you some nerve due to their poker faces. I did fine on my IELTS test despite of my stuttering (7.5 OVR). I am sure ...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersSchool & Academic Life