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commentr/StutterNov 24, 2024
3 points

Thank you brother. For me, it took a while to realize how deeply ingrained these negative anticipation thoughts truly are. I developed them in early childhood, as I’m sure almost all of us did. For...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringMindset shift+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2024
3 points

Placebo likely. Can you talk to yourself fluently? If yes then there’s nothing mechanically wrong with you or your nerves. Just psychological issues....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Overthinking & MonitoringTrauma & Psychological
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2024
3 points

I think it is possible to relax or slow down actually, it’s just incredibly difficult to actually put it in practice. There’s a difference between practicing keeping your anxiety under control to ove...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightFluency Techniques+2 more
postr/StutterNov 24, 2024
10 points

I’m Finally Quitting My Vision Of Improving Myself

I’m Finally Quitting My Vision Of Improving Myself A few days ago, I was watching a video about a boyfriend loyalty testing his partner. It was a very elaborate setup where the girl was meant to thin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2024
3 points

Very interesting observations!  The worst is in our own heads as they say.  What we think they think which ironically just isn't the reality.  They worry, we think they are aggressive and annoyed.  Th...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2024
2 points

Oh no! Think there’s been a misunderstanding, probably due to me poorly communicating my thoughts! The link is my post, so I’d like to fix it, if necessary. I’ll try again - ultimately, looking...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterNov 24, 2024
6 points

How do I overcome stuttering blocks?

How do I overcome stuttering blocks? I've been stuttering ever since I can remember, I'm 15 now and it seems to progressing and worsening, not so much with mumbling or stammering (sttt-,hooo-) but the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 24, 2024
3 points

This is just like the post that sent me to that other author. Rather than engage in the conversation, I see it's easier to just point to something that helped you that you believed in. For one,...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Authenticity vs. MaskingHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterNov 24, 2024
9 points

Public discussion for completing my degree.

Public discussion for completing my degree. Hi guys, I'm an italian girl and in Italian university in almost all universities, to graduate you have to speak in front of the commission about a work you...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
postr/StutterNov 24, 2024
5 points

To you - what’s the difference between recovery and a fix for stammering?

To you - what’s the difference between recovery and a fix for stammering? ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 23, 2024
2 points

I know...everyone does...I was hoping we could have a conversation about it. I think a lot of people worry over words, sounds, etc, but why does it just not line up......

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Overthinking & MonitoringCycles & Randomness
postr/StutterNov 23, 2024
9 points

Hopeless & Planning to move back

Hopeless & Planning to move back I graduated in 2023 in supply chain management degree. I have a 3.5 years work exp within the same field. Been applying for jobs from last 15 months still couldn't cra...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringEmployment & Career
postr/StutterNov 23, 2024
7 points

Self doubt manifestation causing physical stutter/blockage?

Self doubt manifestation causing physical stutter/blockage? This is a hypothesis I've had for a while now and wanted to propose it to see if others feel a similar sensation and how often. Basically, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
postr/StutterNov 22, 2024
22 points

My first date

My first date Hello everybody, I'm a 23-year-old guy, and yesterday I went on my first ever date. The previous two times I was supposed to go on a date ended with the person unmatching me on the day ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 21, 2024
1 points

I often wondered what the point of stuttering and why we know so little about it but just like I started to think less about gods I am starting to think less about stuttering on that level and more ab...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterNov 20, 2024
3 points

Interview advice

Interview advice Does any one have general advice for interviews? I was luckily able to get an interview at my dream med school and really want to be able to answer their questions without blocking o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Overthinking & MonitoringEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterNov 20, 2024
4 points

I was re-reading your tips on stuttering, and I must say, your stutter advice always baffles me. Crazy good! I've summarized the key takeaways from [your posts](https://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/commen...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringMindset shift+2 more
postr/StutterNov 20, 2024
2 points

How to get my Life back?

How to get my Life back? For context I am 23 M graduated a year ago living in a third world country, didn't even apply for jobs because of fear of doing interviews , extreme anxiety and low self conf...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterNov 19, 2024
7 points

Is it normal to take a breath in through your mouth before speaking?

Is it normal to take a breath in through your mouth before speaking? I've realized that whenever I start speaking, I always take a deep breath in from my mouth. I don't know if this is what everyone d...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterNov 19, 2024
2 points

I’m trying to integrate concepts from classical and operant conditioning into a stutter model. Specifically, I’m looking at how **neutral stimuli** (paired with a **second stimulus**) become **conditi...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring