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commentr/StutterOct 12, 2015
1 points

You've got your identity so wrapped up in being a unjust victim that you cling to it as hard as you can. But does it do you any good. Many of us here have severe stutters, but we also hold jobs, make ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2015
1 points

Eeeh, do you have the time? haha Through my whole life al also have pws around me. Don't ask why, I don't know, haha. But they were there. In class, a few friends later in life. Co workers. I like it...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Friendships & BelongingIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterOct 12, 2015
9 points

Listening to my brother use "um" and "like" crutches, I now prefer my stutter to his quick 'cure'.

Listening to my brother use "um" and "like" crutches, I now prefer my stutter to his quick 'cure'. My stutter is hereditary. My brothers both stutter and my dad stuttered, his dad stuttered, so on and...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionGenetic & Family FactorsStrategic Swearing/Cursing+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2015
2 points

>What is the thing that caused this? Stuttering. And how do you know this? How do you know it wasn't something inherent in you--just as much as your disfluency--that was triggered by your stutter?...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Suicidal Ideation & High DistressAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2015
5 points

I've gone through hard times. I've lightly contemplated suicide at times, but nothing serious. I think deep in me I know suicide won't solve any problems, it's the easy way out. I've always thought th...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Suicidal Ideation & High DistressHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 11, 2015
1 points

I have a bunch of different names that I go by (all variants of my very long name), and man it was THE BEST when I switched to my current professional name because it didn't feel "mine" so I didn't st...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 11, 2015
1 points

I think your videos are really good. i can't understate how important it is to keep your outlook and self image in check with this disorder and your videos help do just that. Ignore the negativity, ke...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 10, 2015
0 points

Some D-bag has gone through and down voted everyone that says having a stutter shouldn't prevent you from having children....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2015
6 points

I stutter and I would like kids in the future. If they don't stutter, okay. If they do, they'll have a dad who's been through all the same things that they have, who understands and will help. ...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2015
1 points

We don't want kids, but my stutter has NOTHING to do with that. I think when you a pws and want kids you go for it. Why not? ...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 6, 2015
7 points

I have three kids, none of them stutter. None of them care that I stutter. In actual fact, I stutter a lot less talking to the, than I do anyone else. Stuttering shouldn't be a factor in the decisi...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Family Support & ConflictIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2015
3 points

>I have never hear of "chronic disfluency disorder" That's because one of them is called "stuttering". Stuttering/stammering is a disfluency. I'm 31. My brothers both stutter, our father stutter...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Genetic & Family FactorsNeurological & BrainIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2015
0 points

I have never hear of "chronic disfluency disorder", and I am sorry you are afflicted by that. I do know a lot about speech therapy - I've been to two week intensive therapy programs and have read seve...

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Trauma & PsychologicalAvoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & Agency+1 more
postr/StutterSep 21, 2015
4 points

Your TRUE you does not stutter (I would love feedback on this from others who stutter)

Your TRUE you does not stutter (I would love feedback on this from others who stutter) I, as many of you have I'm sure, have noticed that the voice I hear in my head while I think or read to myself, d...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2015
1 points

I don't do Tinder, but if I were to make a bio, I'd only include stuttering if I considered it important to my identity (such as if I were an activist in any way or went to conventions, or anything li...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2015
5 points

I agree that it's when we try not to stutter that we do... but I appreciate to some extent your refusal of the label. Personally I've transitioned to "I *have* challenges speaking sometimes" rather th...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. MaskingMindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2015
2 points

I'm confused. If you do stutter you are a stutterer. Stuttering is what we do when we try not to stutter. By trying to look away from this part of ourselves we perpetuate the problem IMO....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2015
1 points

I think you're spot on, and that's something I definitely need to work on. I really let my stutter define me, and my self confidence takes a big hit every time anyone makes a comment or laughs about i...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & EmbarrassmentHope & Motivation
postr/StutterSep 15, 2015
10 points

I don't stutter because I'm nervous! Fuck!

I don't stutter because I'm nervous! Fuck! I had girl reject me because "I don't have confidence". Apparently she thought I was stuttering because I was nervous and that meant lack or confidence. No, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 12, 2015
2 points

I am not a parent but I can somewhat answer this question since my father is a stutterer and I am too.The major mistake that my father did is that he denied that he had a stutter all his life and stil...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityParent & Caregiver
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride+3 more