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commentr/StutterJul 16, 2021
3 points

Fyi, a lot of non-stuttering people are terrified of phone calls too. We're not alone in this, although no, I don't get worried whenever I have to make phone calls now. Overcoming this fear isn't some...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJul 16, 2021
8 points

Just applied at mcdonalds

Just applied at mcdonalds I have a pretty moderate stutter and social anxiety, as the title reads I just applied at mcdonalds, do you guys have any tips on how to approach the interview, as I'm scared...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterJul 15, 2021
21 points

Have you ever given up talking for a while, after it just got too hard?

Have you ever given up talking for a while, after it just got too hard? Hey all. I'm new here, I'm turning 39 next month, and I've had a stutter since age 3 or 4. In the most prevalent stuttering para...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2021
2 points

Thanks for your insight. I do struggle with anxiety and a general lack of self worth. When I'm feeling particularly anxious or not confident in myself, the block becomes worse....

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2021
3 points

I'd always think that speaking with someone on the phone should be easier because usually the other person can't tell when you're having a block or a tic and you can always blame the signal so there's...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2021
2 points

Same here. The thought of ordering on the phone pizza is horrifying to me, I'd much rather walk or drive to pizzeria and even then talking to the lady at the cashier is scary....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2021
3 points

How did you deal with fear and speech anxiety related symptoms (shortness of breath, overall tension, negative thoughts etc)? Especially in the beginning when you were starting to apply your "newly le...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
postr/StutterJul 15, 2021
106 points

Anyone else finds making phone calls much harder than having real life conversations? Like I'd rather drive for 2 hours to get something instead of making a quick phone call and simply order it.

Anyone else finds making phone calls much harder than having real life conversations? Like I'd rather drive for 2 hours to get something instead of making a quick phone call and simply order it. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2021
1 points

My stutter gets worse when I’m nervous or self conscious. Anything you let yourself feel insecure about can affect your stutter....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2021
4 points

Thanks. Your story is quite inspirational! I like your analogy, as I’ve learned from other “cured” stutter that the secret is to “forget”. My case is a bit weird though. I use a slower-than-average r...

Coping & AdvocacyCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesPropositionality & WeightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2021
2 points

How fluent are you now? I understand you’re fluent in daily life from your reply. But what about public speech (give presentations in front of 100+ people) or stressful discussion (like interview with...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2021
1 points

Thanks for the reply, I'm currently working on improving my confidence. I should stop caring what other people think of my stutter....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2021
3 points

I had a bit of social anxiety, but it never manifested itself into anything other than shyness. Then when my 20's hit, that's when the speech block started happening and it hit me like a ton of bricks...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2021
2 points

Did you have any anxieties before this? I have severe social anxiety and I think my stutter is very affected by it. The less anxiety, the better my speech is....

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2021
2 points

Thanks I think I am little better than before but for me the most stressful situation is when I have to give job interview face to face , most of the time I lose control over my fluency, thanks to pan...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2021
2 points

That's good you've almost overcome it,.. Yeah stress and anxiety plays a part, I always feel anxious knowing I have to go shops or call someone, well any face to face interaction also.....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2021
2 points

(Just my experience disclaimer, personal observations! ) I have for sure always been casually treated like I have more serious/entirely different issues from just anxiety and a stutter. I am inclined ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / NeurodiversityAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2021
2 points

Definitely I am waiting for it to get approved and marketed , till now there is no way to get this drug unless you are a participants in the trials Hopefully it will be marketed in 2023-2025 There ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2021
2 points

>I get treated like an autistic guy First, please elaborate. Does this happen regularly, or are you relating a particularly bad event? Seeking to understand what you mean. I have one particularly ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / NeurodiversityAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2021
2 points

That’s a really good way to look at it. I just feel like I need time to get my mind right again. Thank you!...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment