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commentr/StutterJan 15, 2017
7 points

Nothing anyone says can change your mind if you're convinced you're right & everyone else is wrong. You're only wasting your own time by making these threads if you have no intention of looking at...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterJan 15, 2017
3 points

I do all that and I still stutter , it's all in your head and perception , everyone has their weaknesses ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterJan 15, 2017
1 points

You're dead wrong. I've been where you are. Hopeless of any chance of leading a normal life or of being even remotely happy. The only person reducing your worth is you. Quit blaming your stutter &am...

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postr/StutterJan 15, 2017
10 points

Convince me this is not a lower standard of living.

Convince me this is not a lower standard of living. After my last post on here I'm still not convinced that it's all in my head. So far I think it's quite the opposite. I think there is a significa...

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commentr/StutterJan 15, 2017
1 points

I should clarify. That deaf girl thing was advice for another poster with a stutter, but it might as well have been me. There were multiple top comments like that on there, that told him to to date de...

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commentr/StutterJan 15, 2017
1 points

I haven't quit. In fact everyone else has cause I'm the only one here who is willing to admit the significant quality of life diminished by stuttering. To me it seems like everyone else has drank the ...

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commentr/StutterJan 14, 2017
2 points

This comment in particular is the one I was referencing: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/5f51rq/i_am_a_loser_i_just_cant_break_this_cycle/dahnqct/ I didn't see the one suggesting deaf women,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2017
1 points

What I have to say is that, even though I have a stutter, that doesn't stop me from being myself and showing how much I can accomplish. I'm an activism in secular values and through that, I've gained ...

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commentr/StutterJan 14, 2017
1 points

Your thoughts are only electrical impulses, reality is you're only holding yourself back. When you're in a mindset like you're experiencing now, it's hard to see that this is the truth. But it is, I w...

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commentr/StutterJan 14, 2017
4 points

Who do you come up as a retard to? Only yourself. It's only in your own mind. Charisma is part of confidence. Enhance it, fake it till you make it. Everybody else does, stutterers or not. ...

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commentr/StutterJan 14, 2017
6 points

Agreed with Schwarze, not dumb nor would I say I don't experience success. As a precursor to this unsolicited advice, I don't have any medical/professional experience with depression. That being sai...

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commentr/StutterJan 14, 2017
8 points

Speak for yourself, I am neither retarded nor dumb, yet I still stutter. Grow some confidence, fake some confidence, that'll help you a lot on your way to accepting and dealing with your stutter and ...

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commentr/StutterJan 11, 2017
2 points

Very good post croagunk... My stuttering was terrible in my '20's, but I was fine with it. I had plenty of friends and girlfriends. I think they said to themselves " if he doesn't care I don't eith...

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commentr/StutterJan 10, 2017
1 points

Hi. I have been through how you feel and even now there are moments when I get anxious or depressed because of my stuttering. But here's the thing you can be an efficient communicator despite your stu...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterJan 10, 2017
2 points

I don't think it's your stutter that makes people nervous or uncomfortable. I have a severe stutter. When I struggle a lot and feel frantic and ashamed while talking, other people feel nervous and unc...

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commentr/StutterJan 10, 2017
2 points

Yea maybe Lincoln isn't relatable to a kid. LOL, but look what he did, and brought the states back together in spite of this. Pretty Cool Dude if you ask me!...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2017
1 points

Ok fair enough. Like I said before it's likely GABA system related. GABA is the break mechanism in the CNS. However, someone who stutters should not think something needs to be fixed. DON'T EVER f wit...

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commentr/StutterJan 10, 2017
3 points

Some big actor's have stutters also - Bruce Willis, Emily Blunt, Samuel L Jackson. Hopefully those will be easier to convince him of their importance :)...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2017
5 points

Thank you!! We try not to focus on it, apart from when we are going through the exercises his speech therapist has given us and of course we have explained that it is nothing for him to be ashamed of....

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commentr/StutterJan 10, 2017
1 points

Yea I lived through this. My advice is don't feed it. The more you shine a spotlight in it the more it grows. Talk to him low key in a safe environment, non-threating. What he needs to know is great...

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