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commentr/StutterMar 6, 2017
1 points

Holy shit, are we twins?? That's how I feel too, I just get on with my life. (Also late 20's civil engineer, ha!) ...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Identity & Self-PerceptionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2017
4 points

Why is people there so close minded ? It isn't the first time a stutterer get good results with NOFAP. Actually I feel like my stuttering is tied in some way with my hormonal level. Tryed NOFAP for so...

Meds & SubstancesIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2017
1 points

No, I'm from Macedonia. But I like Russian names. My kids will have Russian names :) You know, I don't think I always stuttered. When I was kid, I didn't care that much because of my stutter, but when...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionSchool & Academic LifeQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2017
3 points

For sure! I'm happy to share and discuss. I had no one to talk about my stutter with growing up. There was one other boy at school who stuttered and he was so ashamed, I couldn't think to discuss it w...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2017
1 points

Are you Russian? You have a Russian sounding name. I am Ukrainian and grew up in a Ukrainian/Russian culture, but live in America. In our culture (especially in Russia and Ukraine), any abnormality cu...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & MotivationOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2017
1 points

But how to do that? How not to let the stutter impact your life? It didn't when I was in younger age, but now I'm afraid it is. Btw, I'm 20....

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Quality of LifeIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 6, 2017
2 points

I found it fascinating, because.. i thought that its about fact of talking with people. What i mean with that, almost all stutterers don't have problem, when they're talkin alone right ? So it's ( lik...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Propositionality & WeightAvoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMar 5, 2017
10 points

Foreign language ( I can't believe. )

Foreign language ( I can't believe. ) Hello, i am Czech native speaker and i do slutter in Engllish ( also in my major) .. so i am not really using it, so forgive my grammar and such. I am stammer sin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational VariabilityIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2017
1 points

No, bc the stutter I'm used to. Don't like it, but the other stuff I don't know about. So thanks. ...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2017
0 points

It seems like you're more in denial, so fair enough :) I love my life right now, i have gained HUGE confidence from Nofap and my stuttering is getting better everyday. But keep being close minded, ill...

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commentr/StutterMar 5, 2017
0 points

I don't understand the hate?? I'm on Nofap day 20 and my fluency is MUCH better, everytime im on a long streak my anxiety gets better, my stuttering gets better, and my self confidence gets better. An...

Meds & SubstancesEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2017
3 points

It's part of who I am. And the difficulties I faced growing up with it chiseled out so many parts of my personality. So no I wouldn't ever. And if I had to choice to get rid of it completely without c...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2017
7 points

I alway thought I rather be mute. I know a few stutterers who said the same thing. I asked a few people who do not have a speech impediment if they would rather stutter or be mute? They all said "stu...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Quality of LifeIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2017
1 points

Acceptance is key to finding peace and comfort. Otherwise you will stress about it which brings on anxiety and thus, more stuttering. The degree of "acceptance" varies to person to person. I know I ...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideIdentity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2017
1 points

And remember, confidence is key. How you carry yourself and perceive your stutter is how your audience will perceive you and your speech. Be confident and comfortable about it, and your audience will ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2017
1 points

The way you carry yourself goes a LONG way in regards how other people perceive you, despite speaking with a stutter. Disclose and explain the stutter, yet be confident about it. If it doesn't bothe...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2017
3 points

For me, what started the process was realizing my stutter didn't actually, physically, hurt me. It was intensely embarrassing, but it wasn't killing me. So I figured I could deal with the embarrassmen...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterMar 4, 2017
5 points

Would you 'trade' your stutter?

Would you 'trade' your stutter? Say we could trade our stutter for a lisp, cluttering, or any other form of speech impediment, would you do it? I know I definitely would, hell, sometimes I'd rather l...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2017
1 points

OK. For the sake of this discussion, and also because it's not an insane supposition, let's say you are right, that improving you life in the ways that you describe will eliminate a stutter. (Later y...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2017
2 points

Here's something to think about: Why do you have to accept you'll always stutter? What's the issue with believing you can be a smooth speaker? You can accept yourself as the person that you are by e...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception