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commentr/StutterSep 8, 2020
2 points

Bro I wouldn't have been able to tell that you stuttered if you hadn't mentioned it. You're doing great, don't underestimate yourself!...

Identity & Disability
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commentr/StutterSep 8, 2020
2 points

I used to have a very bad stutter to the point where I could barely talk, but for some reason it went away, I guess as I grew more confident. An important thing I think you should know is that you alw...

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commentr/StutterSep 8, 2020
1 points

Yes you are probably right, I am gonna give it a try, I have no other option I can think of. Oh yes there's a lot of good people here, I am glad. He's not a self help gurus, and I know I have been f...

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Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 8, 2020
10 points

I feel you. I really do. I started high school 3 weeks ago, and believe me, I almost shit myself the week before because I was stressed. Especially the introductions the first day. But, listen. The fi...

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commentr/StutterSep 8, 2020
5 points

Non stutterer. Only a very small part of people actually want to harm you Bc they are assholes. From my experience, everyone has something that they get bullied for, with jokes and shit. And everyone ...

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commentr/StutterSep 8, 2020
5 points

No. Don’t give up. I have a moderate stutter and man it’s been debilitating. There’s no fighting that. It’s a stigmatised speech impediment in our society and it’s rough. But don’t let it defeat you, ...

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commentr/StutterSep 8, 2020
2 points

Man, your stuttering is really fine, it's nothing. I think your voice sounds good, I can't see any problems. Breathing exercise once a day or 2 times a day and reading a book out loud slowly, but just...

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Fluency TechniquesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 7, 2020
2 points

Thank you so much! Today was a much better day, I got no comments about it although there were a few laughs.. But either way I think I'm just going to ignore it, I have considerate and supportive frie...

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commentr/StutterSep 7, 2020
1 points

Please don’t do it man. DM me if you need to talk it out. Stuttering is not a death sentence. There’s so much good in life that people who stutter can experience. I promise you....

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postr/StutterSep 6, 2020
8 points

Eve of the first day back

Eve of the first day back My stutter has got really bad since late August due to the autumn weather, coupled with the fact that I have acute rhinitis and a tendency to overthink EVERYTHING. Usually I...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterSep 6, 2020
2 points

Personally because I stutter, I use it as a joke to make my friends laugh. I’ll say something in a jokingly angry way and when they go to say something I’ll say “did I stutter” or sometimes “d-did I s...

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commentr/StutterSep 6, 2020
2 points

Yeah exactly, well put. Bullying, sniggering, awkward stares during while I'm working through a block like time is standing still. I've been through some dark times especially as a teenager but I'm 30...

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commentr/StutterSep 5, 2020
1 points

Yes. I couldn't say mine until I was in high school. But I can now, and the pride I take in that is probably more than any amount of dodged shame by changing it....

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Acceptance & PrideFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2020
1 points

A stutter incident can be perceived as an occasion for entertainment, yes. This requires us to be in a particular setting, and I'm not at all saying that all stutterers automatically are. I would want...

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commentr/StutterSep 5, 2020
1 points

Correct me if I'm wrong but you're saying that people can have fun with a stutter? Because I don't exactly understand that, it seems to me that if you're trying to overcome anxiety for stuttering, wh...

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commentr/StutterSep 5, 2020
2 points

I mean it's not like you can get rid of it overnight. If you stutter, then the audience shall the fuck listen to your every stutter. If they don't like it it's their problem. Remember that you are doi...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterSep 5, 2020
12 points

So happy for you mate! I had my first kiss last week as a stutterer, it gave me a little confidence too....

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postr/StutterSep 5, 2020
60 points

I won

I won One night, my non-stuttering friend and I were both flirting with/trying to get the same girl. This situation had obviously happened before and more often than not I can’t be bothered to put in ...

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commentr/StutterSep 5, 2020
1 points

I think it sounds like an interesting enough approach, but I'm not so sure about the details or the general applicability. I know it's generally not fun to stutter. It's a disruption. Lots of things ...

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commentr/StutterSep 4, 2020
4 points

I think you might be misunderstanding something - this disability isn't really something you can "cure" ALWAYS. Think about it like this, if there was a magical medicine wouldn't there be people selli...

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