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commentr/StutterSep 17, 2020
2 points

I guess its true, that its also hard to listing to. But life aint easy, for nobody. But that doesnt excuse her behavior. Keep in mind, that with such an attidude she will het nowhere in life. Be true...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & PrideStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2020
11 points

Whatever you do. DO NOT TALK LESS. I’m in the military with a minor to moderate stutter. I used to stutter a lot more. The amount of shit I get daily for stuttering is retarded. When I get to a new un...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2020
2 points

The truth is, I still stutter a lot around the people I know. But the people I surround myself love me and find adoration in my stuttering. Growing up, I invalided myself all the time, didn’t like mys...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Acceptance & PridePersonal Stories
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2020
2 points

Resistance only makes it works. Try to stay away from away from the physical aspects of stuttering. The more you resist and reject the idea of self-acceptance, the harder it will be. It’s easier said ...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Acceptance & PrideAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2020
2 points

I feel you, I'm in the same boat The best thing is to just accept it I guess and to focus on your breath. I had gone to speech therapy when I just started but it didn't help at all. It's different for...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2020
2 points

It happens to me, too, and I usually just laugh with them. From what Ive noticed, people initially don’t know that I have a stutter, and just think I tripped on my words. A lot of people without stutt...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Humor & Community ToneAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2020
5 points

Mention it face to face prior to the date starting. Just be cool about it. Like it’s a minor detail. Because to everyone who doesn’t stutter it is minor. But it can get awkward fast when someone doesn...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterSep 15, 2020
9 points

I had a group presentation today

I had a group presentation today And nobody laughed. I may have gotten some weird looks (idk I was too busy presenting) but not one laugh, not one comment. All that was said even remotely about it was...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2020
6 points

As soon as I forced myself to get a job where I had to talk to hundreds of people every day or risk being fired, my life long stutter only comes out when I’m really pissed off or nervous. I’m 38, and ...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2020
2 points

Don't stress about it. The same thing happens to me during presentations. At work we have meetings twice a week. I stutter most times in these meetings but it doesn't bother me. I am good at my work a...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2020
1 points

Some people might judge and shame. That's on them. Would that we were all around lovely people who just want to hear what we have to say. :)...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2020
3 points

I stutter all the time. If I went through every time I stuttered I would not sleep at all!. It is part of life, accept it, own it....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2020
2 points

Did you tell them you have a stutter? Did you tell them they hurt your feelings? Advocate for yourself!...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterSep 15, 2020
29 points

Today was my Presentation and I stammered!

Today was my Presentation and I stammered! Note: I am a first time poster and a long time reader on this sub reddit, so, sorry if it doesn't go well. I am stutterer since childhood, now 22. I discove...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2020
5 points

Always lift yourself up But try to not imagine people as lost souls. We all grow and need each others help. And we can help each other best by not thinking of anyone like this. I try to not judge some...

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
postr/StutterSep 14, 2020
39 points

One way to look at it

One way to look at it I practiced law for 34 years, stuttering all the while, and whenever I encountered a colleague who held my stuttering against me, I often (although not always) could think: I ma...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 14, 2020
1 points

My stutter had been so bad some years that I felt like I effectively couldn't talk. Even at my worst, it was hard being mocked by people who I liked and who I'd hoped to befriend. It was the very wors...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Stigma & BullyingAvoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 14, 2020
1 points

No, never. I've tried not talking because I gave up, but why would I pretend to be something I'm not? Communicating in other ways is totally fine, of course. Pointing, notes, root sounds - whatever ...

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 14, 2020
1 points

No, it's you don't get it anyway without the context, reading it. What I am saying.... u need to read that book, man. No not really, I'm working on myself, living with integrity, accepting it etc. th...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterSep 14, 2020
1 points

Man, there's too much. I don't know what to tell you, maybe a few things that comes to my mind. Stuttering is a system, it's a system that's constructed of parts that influence and are influenced by ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideMindset shift