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postr/StutterOct 21, 2024
163 points

Stuttered throughout the whole interview. Still got the offer.

Stuttered throughout the whole interview. Still got the offer. I won't write a wall of text about my life story, the job, or the company. I just wanted to share this to hopefully give some of you hope...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2024
1 points

A very positive mindset. Knowing music effects it, how I feel saying something in one situation over another. Not dwelling over it and succumbing to emotional drain but rather a positive curiosity a...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationMindset shift+1 more
postr/StutterOct 19, 2024
72 points

This is a superpower

This is a superpower There’s a pattern in life. 2 sides. There is always 2 sides of a coin, so I view this stutter to also have 2 sides. Bad AND Good. Instead of indulging in a victim mentality, unde...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 19, 2024
1 points

Overcoming and Curing aren’t the same, people should value this information and utilize it to their benefit instead of throwing shade on this post, that is the first step to overcoming your stutter. T...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-PerceptionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2024
0 points

Yeah I actually thought about it. It's like it's not actually you who is speaking but another person despite you still doing in physically. Maybe it's also due to the lack of consequences of what yo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2024
0 points

I wonder if #3 might have to do with acting… you’re role playing, ie, playing a character, or telling their story. You don’t think of stuttering, bc your character doesn’t stutter. Maybe try to incorp...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Roles & PerformanceAvoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2024
1 points

I don't think there's anything which consistently helps all stutters. It's different for each person. What helped me was focusing on building confidence. This meant I took every opportunity to speak i...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2024
0 points

Accept the stutter and try to be confident. It kind of works for me...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterOct 18, 2024
0 points

My advice would be to not only rehearse your speech, but also get into the mindset of not giving a shit, right now you're overthinking it and that's natural, but the more you ruminate on it the more y...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Preparation & RehearsalMindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 17, 2024
1 points

I say do it because It can only do you good dude. I have more of a mental stutter as well and don’t stutter around family or friends as much but rather in front of strangers set up by social anxiety. ...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFluency TechniquesMindset shift
commentr/StutterOct 17, 2024
3 points

First congratulations ! I'm really happy that you managed to make it. I enjoyed reading you and the way you made it . That's a lot introspection and strength to keep going forward and stay optimistic....

Causes & VariabilityCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 17, 2024
1 points

You think I'm going to stutter when we speak? Fuck you, I won't. This type of thinking helps me in this cases. I only got bullied at school, a few times luckily, but now I sometimes make a "weak" of ...

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shiftSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterOct 17, 2024
2 points

I quite this subddit for so long , and thats was one of things thR helped me to overcome stutter , cause this and discord are most surrenders , negative , karens and steves , i thought that i ll found...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-PerceptionFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterOct 17, 2024
1 points

From my experience, our worst enemy is the "pre-thinking" that we are going to stutter. If I have to speak to someone I try to focus on the outside and not on the inside, and it's day and night. Also...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Anticipating StutteringMindset shift
commentr/StutterOct 17, 2024
3 points

I only stutter around awesome people now, others ive learnt to prosper with....

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterOct 17, 2024
5 points

“The goal is to reprogram those subconscious beliefs” if only it were that easy. We can’t force ourselves to believe something we don’t in any sustainable way. While I believe stuttering can be rooted...

Coping & AdvocacyCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftTrauma & PsychologicalIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 17, 2024
1 points

I usually have a random week every few months where my stutter (block) is really bad. I just accept it and know it's going to be a bad week and get on with my life. I'm 36 so that's easier said than ...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Severity & FluctuationMindset shift
commentr/StutterOct 17, 2024
7 points

Claiming you discovered a way to overcome stuttering is just the same as saying there's a cure....

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Medicalization / NeurodiversityMindset shift
commentr/StutterOct 17, 2024
2 points

First, I want to share a perspective that helped me tremendously: I realized that stuttering isn’t a disease. A disease is typically something you experience consistently, like a fever or diarrhea, wh...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Medicalization / NeurodiversityMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 17, 2024
2 points

I spent a lot of time diving into psychological research papers, watching videos, and really reflecting on everything for about a year. Through that journey, I reached some conclusions about what stut...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindset shiftOverthinking & Monitoring