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commentr/StutterOct 14, 2024
18 points

So he's a whore and lacks a frontal lobe? Must suck to be him. Don't ever feel bad about being a virgin, because sex should be saved for someone who you truly love. I am also a virgin with a stutter...

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commentr/StutterOct 14, 2024
9 points

I would tell anyone else you date that you have a stutter. They’re going to find out anyway. Better to tell them anyway....

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commentr/StutterOct 14, 2024
14 points

I might chop my response into sections because this is a topic I feel deeply about. So I am a 5’0, 22 year old disabled man. By no means am I conventionally desirable in the eyes of society. And with...

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commentr/StutterOct 14, 2024
49 points

That guy sucks. Total jerk. He doesn’t matter. I stutter, am very socially awkward and yet have been intimate with several people. You matter. You can do it!...

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commentr/StutterOct 14, 2024
0 points

It seems that his stutter isn't very severe at the moment.  Stuttering gets in the way of everything, as most day-to-day things need communication. I cannot approach a girl without making a fool of ...

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commentr/StutterOct 14, 2024
0 points

Thank you so much. I don’t know much about having a stutter, his doesn’t cross my mind unless he’s worried about it and wants help finding things for it. May I ask does it usually get in the way of re...

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commentr/StutterOct 14, 2024
0 points

You're a good person to not let his stutter get into the way of your relationship. I bet he is grateful to have you....

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commentr/StutterOct 14, 2024
17 points

I let stuttering take my teen years, my 20's and it's about to take my 30's. I've never dated, had my first kiss or held hands or any of that. I don't know what it's like to enjoy a conversation. I ha...

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commentr/StutterOct 14, 2024
2 points

I’m 77f. I’ve stuttered since early childhood. Nevertheless, I was married for 54 years to the most amazing professional man who proudly presented me socially and professionally. Having this condition...

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Acceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 14, 2024
0 points

I have similar feelings. I feel shame around my almost covert stutter. there are fluent days and there are difficult days. When I was younger, alcohol and drugs helped me a lot to get comfortable in s...

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commentr/StutterOct 12, 2024
2 points

I went on a date the other day, and although I stuttered quite a lot it didn't beat me down and she didn't seem to mind either!  It was actually so hot feeling her squeeze my hand tighter when I was...

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postr/StutterOct 11, 2024
0 points

Moving forward...

Moving forward... What are best options for a person with stammering to earn money and get rich Also how you guys do in dating market and approach girls ...

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commentr/StutterOct 3, 2024
0 points

Easier said that done, but ask her how she feels about the stuttering. And don't be afraid to be honest about how it makes you feel when talking on the phone. If it's clear that the stuttering i...

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commentr/StutterOct 3, 2024
2 points

Why don't you just tell her you'd be more comfortable texting? If you're fine talking in person then talking on the phone really is not a requirement for modern dating....

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commentr/StutterOct 3, 2024
0 points

The phone has been a problem for me throughout adulthood (slightly less now, but that's a very recent development). My advice is to let her into your world by telling her how you felt on the phone cal...

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commentr/StutterOct 3, 2024
2 points

Have you tried video chats here and there so all these calls between you two aren't just voice? Perhaps a quick Skype, snap call or FaceTime would help break upnaome of this for you two. It could help...

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commentr/StutterOct 3, 2024
11 points

She spoke to you for *two hours* on the phone. That's a good indicator that she is into you. If she was so offended by your stutter, she wouldn't stick around for *two hours* no matter what. Get out o...

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commentr/StutterOct 2, 2024
1 points

No the women of ur dreams wouldnt care about ur stutter. Dont give her two much credit off the jump. Anyways eithers talk to her about face to face, or wish you would have. Its entirely possible that ...

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Acceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterOct 2, 2024
7 points

Did u tell her straight up that u stutter and if she has an issue wit it. If u did, n she said she ain’t mind. Then ur chilling. Dont b a bitch and don’t be a child. Be a man and confident. If she fuc...

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commentr/StutterOct 2, 2024
39 points

If she doesn’t want you because you struggle talking on the phone, she isn’t the woman of your dreams. Chin up bud no matter what happens...

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