So he's a whore and lacks a frontal lobe? Must suck to be him. Don't ever feel bad about being a virgin, because sex should be saved for someone who you truly love. I am also a virgin with a stutter, so I can somewhat relate, but I will never feel bad for being a virgin. Sex is the most intimate form of expression of ones love, so it's very important to be careful with who you're doing that with. there's also been studies done that have found that those who have had more sexual partners are more likely to initiate divorce. Also stds kinda suck. I also fully understand your anxiety. Thankfully I have been able to cope with it by realizing that if people aren't going to like me, they're not going to like me. I used to get picked on in school, and those guys who picked on me knew nothing about me, just like that man whore you were talking too, and they still made judgements of my character based on my appearance and their preconceived notions. I'm saying this because you should always be yourself, because if someone isn't going to like you, they're not going to like you regardless, so why contort and remold who you are for some dick head who would sacrifice you for $10? Next time when someone insults you, just know it has to do more with them, with their lack of empathy and need to make less of others, than it does about you. Although I know it's not that simple, just try to let it roll off of you, and focus on the better things in life, like cats, music, and pasta. I wish you the best with your dating endeavors, because while a lot of guys are ass hats, not all us are terrible. Just keep looking, don't have any expectations, and be yourself.