I might chop my response into sections because this is a topic I feel deeply about. So I am a 5’0, 22 year old disabled man. By no means am I conventionally desirable in the eyes of society. And with a stutter too of course, I must have been a horrible person in a past life. Around the time I got to college, I kind of came to the conclusion that life isn’t worth living scared. All throughout high school, I was so sure that no one would ever love me, so I never even tried when it came to dating. Fast-forward a few years, I have now been in multiple relationships. I’m not going to claim to have “the answer” to having confidence as a person with a stutter, but I think it is very important to accept yourself with all of your limitations, and to be happy as you are. Obviously , it’s easier than done. It’s something that everyone has to find within themselves, and some never do. But I truly believe life is about your mindset. If you think you’re undesirable, then that will manifest itself in your love life.