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commentr/StutterDec 9, 2020
15 points

That is awesome. Matt Mercer is a fantastic voice actor who I recently learned has a stutter! You got this....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterDec 9, 2020
1 points

When you hear a fellow stutterer for the first time in forever and you are all "I finally meet one of my own kind"

When you hear a fellow stutterer for the first time in forever and you are all "I finally meet one of my own kind" [removed]...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
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commentr/StutterDec 9, 2020
3 points

ok..can you try forgetting about your stuttering.. sometimes when your mind is bloated about stuttering you tend to get stressed and stutter more...maybe try going on a peaceful vacation and focus on ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindfulness & BreathingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2020
2 points

I guess i have to because there is no other choice. I don’t wanna let it ruin my life because still , there are good things happening. I think we must accept that and try to be happy no matter how ha...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2020
2 points

You’re not the only one. Believe that much. Confidence is such a hard mindset to conquer. Just never stop believing in yourself. If you don’t love, trust, and believe in yourself, then who else will ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2020
3 points

Obviously won’t help everyone, but I used to block so much on the “h” of hello. Now I kind of answer the phone with a tuneful “yello!” No one notices and it means I can answer the phone semi confident...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2020
2 points

Honestly I’m less bothered by it now, but it still sucks. As far as strategies, I just accept that at some point I’m gonna stutter while I’m on the phone. Sometimes my fluency rocks, and other times...

Identity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Acceptance & PrideRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterDec 9, 2020
2 points

Exactly, when i was little i always thought it was gonna go away somehow but noo! I think it is getting harder to get used to the idea that its gonna stay...

Speech & StutteringIdentity & Disability
Onset & Life-Stage ChangesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2020
3 points

Came here to say Scatman. His biggest song "I'm a Scatman" is about accepting your stutter and not letting it hold you back....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2020
2 points

I had a similar experience at the exact same age. Mine was a speech block (I would just get stuck mid-sentence). It came out of nowhere and sabotaged my life for a couple of years. I actually discove...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & AgencyAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2020
3 points

Scatman John has more songs than just Scatman, he has an entire discography that deals with stuttering in such an amazing way. If you're looking for places to start I recommend Let it Go and Scatman's...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Personal StoriesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2020
1 points

That makes me so happy. I thought no one knew about it since it’s quite old and not a perspective that’s taken seriously in speech therapy. I also discovered it years ago It validated the intuition I’...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Trauma & PsychologicalAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 8, 2020
1 points

That’s a great way of explaining it. A habit of rumination that puts us into the viscous cycle of fear -> stutter -> It’s also akin to OCD where a stuttering block is like a wall we try to get...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+2 more
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2020
2 points

My patterns have changed loads over the years. I used to block on certain sounds, then on any sounds. It would be worse when stressed or anxious or in certain situations like using the phone or with f...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Stress & Fight/FlightAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterDec 7, 2020
3 points

Im 35, and ive learned to piggyback on my friends to become more social. Same at work, i befriend few coworkers, and sortof use their social skills to put myself out there. For me the key has been to ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentValidation & Empathy+3 more
commentr/StutterDec 6, 2020
6 points

I just did whatever prevented me from stuttering severely. When I was a kid I had almost no control over it, then growing up I started to hide it by making a "click" noise with my mouth whenever I enc...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindfulness & BreathingVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more
postr/StutterDec 6, 2020
6 points

People who had a severe stutter in the past and don’t anymore, how did you get over it?

People who had a severe stutter in the past and don’t anymore, how did you get over it? In what ways did you practice or help yourself?...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Fluency TechniquesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2020
3 points

I think the key is to figure out how to just be yourself as a stutterer. For me this meant coming to terms with stuttering being a part of me, and getting more comfortable with stuttering in front of ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2020
3 points

There are three types of stuttering- repetitions (a-a-apple), blocks (can't get a word out), and a third one idk what its called (aaaaaa-apple). I typically have the blocks which is a love-hate relati...

Speech & StutteringIdentity & Disability
Blocks & StoppagesPhysical TensionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterDec 5, 2020
6 points

As tough as it sounds, just owning the stutter and doing your best to be yourself is key here. My stutter was awful the year I was graduating high school. I’m a senior in college now and it’s still pr...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingSeverity & Fluctuation+1 more