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commentr/StutterJan 17, 2021
1 points

this moreless true I found after going to a speech therapist for a lil while and the excercises I was set not helping. after 3 months and no improvement I just accepted that i have a stammer and it wi...

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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2021
18 points

Just recently I stopped caring if people thought about my stutter and it helped my stutter a lot actually. I think this sub and the discord helped a lot so thanks...

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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2021
1 points

If an amazing girl likes you, your stutter is probably less severe than you think it is. I don’t mean that in a rude way at all btw — research shows that people who stutter almost always have a more n...

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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2021
1 points

@nukefudge makes the point. There’s nothing wrong with stuttering. Own it...

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commentr/StutterJan 16, 2021
1 points

Thank you! Yeah I think as a person stands up for himself or herself a kind of confidence grows or a sense of self-integrity automatically becomes more valued in that persons own perspective. Like, I ...

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commentr/StutterJan 15, 2021
5 points

There will always be good days and bad days for your stammer. The unpredictability of it’s occurrence makes me anxious too. I developed this ‘AHR’ rule: Acceptability, Humilty, Relax 1. Accept you h...

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postr/StutterJan 15, 2021
13 points

I held a discussion for an hour today

I held a discussion for an hour today I was so goddamn nervous, it started at monday. You know the brief feeling you have when you forget the thing you were nervous about, like "oh wasn't I supposed t...

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postr/StutterJan 15, 2021
134 points

I ordered food over the phone today.

I ordered food over the phone today. That’s it really. It went well, I got my address and payment info out without any issues. Minor stutter when I asked to add fish to my order but other than that I’...

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postr/StutterJan 15, 2021
7 points

Had a group presentation and I STUTTER

Had a group presentation and I STUTTER It's near of the end of semester so obviously there are many presentation I need to get done so this is one of it.Btw this is the subject which I confront the le...

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commentr/StutterJan 14, 2021
3 points

Man, now that I have practically beat my stutter sometimes all I can think about is what I would do if I had a chance of doing things again. The amount of trouble and fun I would have caused. Hehehe....

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commentr/StutterJan 14, 2021
4 points

Just chiming in: you are not alone! I stutter and it bothers me every day, but I am still happy. I have an awesome toddler and a fulfilling life. Your stuttering does NOT define you. You simply can’t ...

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commentr/StutterJan 14, 2021
6 points

Hard Times create strong men. I pray to god to not bless with me an easy life but to have the strength to endure a hard one. Stuttering can make us strong if we let it and we change our perception of ...

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commentr/StutterJan 14, 2021
13 points

I used to get this a lot when I was younger. Now I just try to talk regardless, stutter be damned....

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commentr/StutterJan 14, 2021
1 points

It certainly helps to practice speaking in whatever situation is available to you even if it means speaking alone. When speaking with others it is important to keep in mind the flight or fight respons...

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commentr/StutterJan 13, 2021
2 points

Haven’t gotten completely rid of my stutter as I trip over some words from time to time, but feel as if I’ve gotten over it. I’m 29 now and think I’ve been getting more and more over it through my 20s...

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commentr/StutterJan 13, 2021
3 points

What do you mean with "gotten over"? Do you mean "gotten rid of"? :) I think there are some stutterers who can be said to have "gotten over" their stutter, even though they haven't "gotten rid of" it...

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commentr/StutterJan 13, 2021
2 points

Hi mate, don’t let it get you down! I have had a stutter since I can remember and I’m 22. I forced myself to work around people in hospitality such as bars and restaurants and that really helped with ...

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commentr/StutterJan 12, 2021
2 points

Hey, bud. I’m 21 M and just graduating university in May. I’ve been stuttering for as long as I could remember. I did speech therapy in elementary school, but after I got my syllables annunciated prop...

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commentr/StutterJan 12, 2021
2 points

I’m 20 and I’ve dealt with it my entire life as well but the one thing that I’ve noticed, compared to when I was 15 my stutter is still there but it has gotten infinitely better. But I’m telling you ...

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commentr/StutterJan 12, 2021
7 points

It's a euphoric feeling being able to speak fluidly and with confidence knowing you conquered the stutter. It comes back here there slightly for me but its a great feeling knowing conversations are ea...

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