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commentr/StutterJul 30, 2024
9 points

Disclosure is an empowering method of reducing the shame someone is *already* feeling. Disclosing is also a message that “I am/have overcome a challenge.”...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 30, 2024
9 points

Don't. On the date itself tell her early on you have a stutter. Most likely it won't affect the date and you can relieve the pressure to not stutter. For me this worked....

Social & Relationships
Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 30, 2024
1 points

Did you disclose that you stutter? It always helps me to navigate smoothly through the interview as I don't have the pressure to prove myself to be a perfect speaker. You could then say that your stut...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerDisclosure & Telling OthersIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 30, 2024
3 points

I personally don't tell people. Although mine's bad enough it's pretty self evident lol But I take the view that if it's relevant to them, they can tell anyway, and if they can't tell then it's not ...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJul 30, 2024
11 points

Any advice on how to tell people that I stutter?

Any advice on how to tell people that I stutter? I’m going back to college soon and I’ll have new roommates. I’ve never really been open about stuttering and it’s something I want to try. I want to d...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersSchool & Academic Life
postr/StutterJul 30, 2024
28 points

Should I put the fact that I stutter / have a speech impediment on my dating profile?

Should I put the fact that I stutter / have a speech impediment on my dating profile? ...

Social & Relationships
Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/women_who_stutterJul 30, 2024
1 points

Should I put the fact that I stutter / have a speech impediment on my dating profile?

Should I put the fact that I stutter / have a speech impediment on my dating profile? ...

Social & Relationships
Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterJul 29, 2024
76 points

Today I disclosed my stutter during a phone interview for the first time ever

Today I disclosed my stutter during a phone interview for the first time ever 26 M, and lately I've been disclosing my stutter to people. Today I did something I had never done before: I disclosed my ...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & WorkIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & CareerAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 28, 2024
3 points

I've been stuttering my whole life as well and as an adult, it can feel very embarrassing and almost seem like a barrier to some of our goals. I've learned to just accept it and work with it the best ...

Identity & DisabilitySchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingEmployment & Career+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2024
1 points

Hey, friend! We’ve all been there. Let me say this; a lot of the time we have to be our own advocates. Something that I learned is that the more I lean into being open and upfront about my stutter, t...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2024
3 points

For what it's worth, he acknowledged his stutter in his address to the nation from today and highlighted his accomplishments in spite of his stutter....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Public Awareness / MediaDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 24, 2024
1 points

Yes. It is important to do. if it goes unremarked many interviews will not understand whats happening. If you tell them you stutter they can put your interview in better context and have a sense of ho...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Disclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2024
1 points

Yes. It gives me a bit of control of people’s perception of my speaking ability and “weird tics”, and from my experience, not doing so is basically allowing some people to assume that I’m a nervous wr...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2024
1 points

>if your stutter is noticeable in any way, they will know Yup. And people in general are very uninformed about stuttering, so when they notice you stuttering, a lot of them would assume that it’s at...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 22, 2024
2 points

This is misinformed and will negatively impact people who have a different kind of a stutter than you. Many jobs require effective communication many stutterers are unable to speak the words they wan...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 22, 2024
2 points

Yes. I tell ALL my coworkers I have a stutter. This sets the expectation clearly and gives me less anxiety...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 22, 2024
4 points

Yep! I usually say something along the lines of “as I’m sure you’ve already noticed, I do have a stutter. I’ve had it all my life, but I don’t let it affect my work.”...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 22, 2024
4 points

Yes! I mention it when they notify me of the interview (in an email) and then again at the beginning...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2024
1 points

I’m a man but I just told my girlfriend outright so she wouldn’t be caught off guard if I had a big block or anything like that. Obviously you’ll meet a jerk every now and again but if they’re a half ...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling OthersDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJul 21, 2024
2 points

honestly its not bad! I told my boyfriend (been together 6 months) upfront I stutter and it gets worse when I’m tired of drinking. He doesn’t judge or make fun of me like my ex did! Instead he tells m...

Social & Relationships
Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others