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commentr/StutterApr 4, 2021
2 points

But what if acceptance leads to a more relaxed mentality? Anxiety doesn’t cause stuttering of course but I think for most of us, it definitely plays a role in how bad it is. If you let go of that anxi...

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commentr/StutterApr 4, 2021
2 points

Confidence helps. I find that hitting the gym and taking of yourself helps you be more confident, and by extension helps you talk with girls....

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commentr/StutterApr 4, 2021
4 points

I think that depends on the severity of your stutter. Some people can't even get a word out. Acceptance isn't really going to help them be a functioning member of society if they physically can't orde...

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commentr/StutterApr 4, 2021
4 points

I mean, plenty of people have to deal with shit. Some people need physical crutches, we need a different kind of crutch. Nothing wrong with that. I wouldn't call you entitled, buy I'd rather use tech...

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commentr/StutterApr 4, 2021
3 points

Girls find confidence cute. The world expects us to be embarrassed. Prove the world wrong and girls will not be a problem....

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commentr/StutterApr 4, 2021
6 points

Are you entitled? Hell no. In fact, I'd argue that most, if not all, of the things you mentioned are doing more harm than good in the long run. These sound like avoidance techniques which generally l...

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commentr/StutterApr 4, 2021
1 points

Call her back don’t text, let it flow. Trust me that is all you need to get past this wall you and other young guys put up around yourself. How can any woman come into your life and you have walls p...

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commentr/StutterApr 4, 2021
1 points

Trust me I have been there but I was at the age of 12 when I got tired of being pulled out of class for speech therapy since 1st grade. Since that day I never looked back. So do you and keep your he...

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commentr/StutterApr 4, 2021
1 points

goodness no, why would you be? it's your voice, you can treat it however you want, and if people give you shit for stuttering instead of wasting energy on not stuttering, then they're not the kind of ...

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commentr/StutterApr 4, 2021
2 points

Just because she doesn’t understand or have to understand his stutter doesn’t make her nice. She just isn’t the one for him or is she? How would we know if he doesn’t engage in conversation. It’s just...

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commentr/StutterApr 4, 2021
1 points

First you need to develop some confidence in yourself regardless. From there everything will fall into place and you will not have issues getting a woman or if you like a variety of women that will be...

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commentr/StutterApr 4, 2021
5 points

Just keep talking with your stutter. The right girl won’t care in the slightest that you do. My girlfriend hears me stutter every day, it’s a normal thing and I sometimes don’t even notice that I’m s...

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commentr/StutterApr 3, 2021
3 points

I used to care waaaay to much about what people thought of my stutter, but this is how I go about it. People can’t please everyone, so as a stutter you shouldn’t push your self to hard to have a flow...

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commentr/StutterApr 3, 2021
1 points

Me? Well, that’s a wrong assumption. Read my last comment and see if now you get it, maybe I explained myself wrong. I rather say how learning to love yourself is better than respond sharing my sad pr...

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commentr/StutterApr 3, 2021
2 points

Agreed. And I think our mentality of it being a part of ourselves is really healthy and is the first step towards being more happy. The sooner you realize and accept that your stutter is a part of you...

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commentr/StutterApr 3, 2021
1 points

I agree with this mentality, and I think for sure my stutter has made me more humble. But I can't help but imagine how much more outgoing, social and generally more comfortable I would be if i didn't ...

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commentr/StutterApr 3, 2021
7 points

All these replies are just plain sad, I don’t even know how are people supposed to fight a stutter when all this negative comments are flying around... You can be the person you want anytime, but real...

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commentr/StutterApr 3, 2021
2 points

I completely agree, it is the same for me. Half of my life I lived a happy fluent life and then when I was 15, stuttering occured to me. Stuttering is not me, it is a handicap I need to live with. But...

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commentr/StutterApr 3, 2021
1 points

I don’t care about my stutter, I only care about it when I stutter but other than that I don’t let it be the cloud that’s over my head. I stuttered a lot more when I young younger. But now when I talk...

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commentr/StutterApr 3, 2021
1 points

Oh yeah I feel you 100%. Plus, when I think about my stutter too much, I can barely get a word out. I remember a time in my life where I didn’t give a crap if I stuttered or not. I was ironically the ...

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