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commentr/StutterJul 19, 2022
1 points

When I was little words starting with an 'a' syllable were very hard for me to speak, now I have difficulty speaking words starting from 'r' syllable. Today during my chemistry class, the teacher wa...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2022
5 points

There must be a scene where the main character has to introduce himself and he’s just scared cause he can’t pronounce his name without stuttering....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2022
4 points

How you feel is how most people feel in public. Everybody has some degree of social anxiety. I can almost guarantee that most people were too conferenced with how other people were perceiving them to ...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
postr/StutterJul 18, 2022
10 points

Shopping

Shopping I don’t know if anyone gets this but going to the shops to get food in is horrible. Even when I know I don’t need to speak to anyone, I still feel like everyone’s watching me. I was walking ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2022
1 points

I think in my case it was the cause. I started stuttering when I was 8, lot of stuff happened and it caused my stuttering, low self esteem issues, major insecurities (regarding everything about me) an...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2022
2 points

I think it’s a chicken- egg thing. Inferiority complex or self esteem issues >> stutter >> more inferiority complex and self esteem issues....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2022
1 points

For me it’s “thank you” because it comes across as automatic with no thought behind it, and planning my words takes thought. It’s really awkward when I’m talking to strangers....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2022
7 points

a lot of stuttering is anxiety related. many adults stutter less after drinking a beer because inhibitions are lowered. if I'm nervous or anxious I stutter more....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2022
2 points

It it makes you feel any better friend, I’m a youth pastor in his first year doing VBS, I’m pretty nervous. I’m also writing this from the church bathroom as I avoid hearing my recording childrens ser...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2022
1 points

I am very ashamed and very anxious, I've also discovered I'm paranoid too. Not a great combo I'm thinking about going to a therapist or speech therapist but not both...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencySeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2022
2 points

I know a few reasons that I can think of. Since I started this job, I've gained maybe a stone in weight which isn't great, I've also coincidentally started getting this chest pain and chest tightness...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Stress & Fight/FlightEnergy & Biological RhythmsShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2022
1 points

Man, I agree with you about eye contact. For me anyway it's awkward, plus it seems like too many things to focus on at once when I'm trying to get my words out....

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2022
2 points

Props to you for giving it a shot. I work at a church (tech stuff) and struggle with my stutter. We just had our VBS as well. Keeping up with the pace of how kids talk can be hard, man. And they're j...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic LifePublic Speaking
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2022
2 points

So did I! When I saw the application, my parents convinced me that it'd do no harm to apply for it so I did and when I got the interview, I straight up told them I have a mild and inconsistent stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2022
2 points

The reason I say I can't really disclose it during work is because I take emergency calls and its a waste of time that I don't have to disclose to the caller and/or the operator. Even at that, I've d...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterJul 16, 2022
4 points

How do you deal with speaking in a place where people can overhear you?

How do you deal with speaking in a place where people can overhear you? Like on a bus or train, i.e. an area of confined space with a lot of people close by. I hate it if I have to do so around others...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAudience Scale & Group Size
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2022
1 points

For me it wasn't that bad until the stress from work kick in, so I decided to go with pills now I'm trying Xanax, 3 days (definitely to early to a real diagnosis) so far it's not like I get blocks her...

Emotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelpful Med OutcomesSide Effects & Risks
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2022
3 points

I also volunteered yesterday at my church. When the parents came in, my anxiety spiked so bad I couldn’t breathe. I was so scared of them asking for my name. The whole time I wasn’t myself and cried t...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2022
1 points

Of course. Maybe you have gotten used to people ignoring you so you think that there are only a few things you can say that will gain people’s approval. And you are stressing out to find that 1% of th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJul 16, 2022
55 points

Humiliated

Humiliated I volunteered to help with our church's VBS this week because I'm trying to talk more, and I figured it was a way to help out and to talk mostly just in front of kids, so less pressure (I s...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying