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commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
5 points

This is good advice. I am in a similar situation and I have learned to care a lot less about what people think. Those who judge you by one little imperfection were never meant to be in your life anywa...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social JudgmentSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
2 points

I have related closely to what you say. Voluntary stuttering has really helped me with this. It really helps desensitize you and decreases the fear in those moments. And never, ever apologize for yo...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
14 points

Being 18, starting college, is a huge transition and I totally understand the feeling of being overwhelmed and hopelessness. The avoidances...not speaking in class, at work are all reinforcing the fe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation+3 more
postr/StutterJul 26, 2022
26 points

I need tips on how to deal with it.

I need tips on how to deal with it. I am 18, and have stuttered my whole life. I have never escaped the little comments, but since being at college I feel like it causes me to have severe social anxi...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
1 points

I’m rooting for you! It’d be delusional to say that stuttering never holds us back, that doesn’t mean it will always though. Confidence certainly helps, it won’t sway a bigot but most people are qui...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationIdentity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJul 26, 2022
4 points

Moving past embarrassment and mental blocks?

Moving past embarrassment and mental blocks? So for context, I have a block stutter and it just shows up whenever it wants, but I mostly stutter in nervous situations or when I think that I’m gonna st...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesOverthinking & MonitoringShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
3 points

I stutter the most around my dad because he'd always made the most comments about my stutter and me self consciousness about it. For blocks I sometimes try the soft start technique where you start eve...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
-1 points

"I bet if we did a female study and asked if they’d prefer a disabled child or a non-disabled child, they’d choose non-disabled 99% of the time. " duh. that's why I said nuance. basically no one choo...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Medicalization / NeurodiversityAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJul 26, 2022
9 points

Any tips for helping with my speech blocks?

Any tips for helping with my speech blocks? I dont really know who else to talk about this so ya i am doing it here. I have always stuttered as far as i remember and even tho i never really had a hard...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
-1 points

THANK YOU!!!! Finally someone who didn't feel offended, I am just thinking about my kids in future.. I don't want them to deal with social anxiety and have struggle making friends or finding love, it ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationDating & RomanceFriendships & Belonging+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
5 points

Im the same way. I didn’t want kids because I didn’t want to pass down this invisible affliction that causes excruciating anxiety. Your getting downvotes for being real....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & RomanceStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
1 points

It's sexism (and borderline eugenics) to say that women will only go for men that will produce the best, most abled children. Women and all people are typically more nuanced than that and have other t...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Medicalization / NeurodiversityAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
4 points

>it is something I won't be able to live with because I've been insecure my whole life about my speaking skills and wouldn't want my kids to ever feel the same as I do >has a good heart an...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceParent & Caregiver
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & ConcealmentParent Emotions & Guilt+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
1 points

> I realize that.. but for people who stutter it is really hard to even socialize and being someone with social anxiety who had my difficulties I don't wish that ever to my kids ot anyone. Thank yo...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & RomanceIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
-1 points

> we are damaged goods? Him being amazing and "personality of gold" gets thrown put the window? That's not it, he is an amazing man, he is got many good traits but on the other hand there is also ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & RomanceGenetic & Family Factors
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
0 points

YES I KNOW, and I feel terrible about it.. I never told him my worries because I don't want him to feel like he isn't enough...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2022
-13 points

My social anxiety isn't that bad and it is different from stuttering, which is smt physical more than mental....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2022
18 points

So you are worried his stutter might be passed down but not your social anxiety?...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Genetic & Family FactorsAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJul 25, 2022
10 points

today I met some of my brother's friends and I feel bad at the end of the day

today I met some of my brother's friends and I feel bad at the end of the day Because I really wanted to create a good first impression, they are cool, they are nice people and interesting, and I real...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
postr/StutterJul 25, 2022
38 points

Have a job interview tomorrow, wish me luck.

Have a job interview tomorrow, wish me luck. Have an interview tomorrow for a job in my dream career field. Been around this block before, feel reasonably confident with the kinds of questions I'll be...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more