> I realize that.. but for people who stutter it is really hard to even socialize and being someone with social anxiety who had my difficulties I don't wish that ever to my kids ot anyone. Thank you for your help.. I will try to solve it as soon as possible I think your getting downvotes bc thats a generalization of stutterers. There are many extroverted stutterers. Have you had many talks to your bf about stuttering? If not, try to understand him better and how the stuttering affects him socially. Maybe its not as bad as you think. Also FWIW, I stutter and my wife has lifelong anxiety like you. Are we social butterflies? No, but we manage and have an adequate social life. We met in our late 20s/early 30s. We laugh because we say if we met in our early 20s it wouldnt have worked out. Both of us did a lot of self improvement by the time we met each other. Timing is everything