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commentr/StutterNov 19, 2019
1 points

of course it only makes sense we got underestimated especially for men, the antidote is not to be more assertive, but to earn the respect....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 19, 2019
2 points

I am such an extroverted person and I love talking to people even though sometimes I just can’t. That stereotype is true in some ways because my stammer has held me back and shaped me as a person to b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 19, 2019
10 points

stuttering has made me socially passive definitely .Weak however not. Looking back right now im the most quiet ive ever been.From very cheerful and talkative to bored and tired of socialising from the...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 19, 2019
6 points

I'm a stutterer and also weak and passive. Can confirm stereotype is true....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 19, 2019
12 points

Its true i think for a lot of people. I myself never felt this way because i am an extremely open and social person. Even with my stutter that didnt change. Did make it harder....

Identity & Disability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterNov 19, 2019
53 points

Stutterers as weak/passive stereotype

Stutterers as weak/passive stereotype Does anyone find that the tendency for people to think of people with speech impediments as somehow less assertive holds you back in your career -- or life in gen...

School & WorkIdentity & Disability
Employment & CareerIdentity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 18, 2019
11 points

if its any consolation. my father has a stutter, its not something i think about when i speak with him; i dont hear it. its just my dad. as your 'game' continues, you'll find players who realize its...

Community & SupportIdentity & Disability
Validation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2019
1 points

I'm moderate to severe, usually more on the severe side. I've reached a point where om a lot more comfortable with it now than ever before. I don't hide it. I mean I can't anyway, but I also don't wan...

Identity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. MaskingValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2019
2 points

Hey mate, I feel you! I have a stutter and severe ADD. I was judged my entire life because of these two. If you tell me something once, I‘ll forget about it a minute later and you‘ll have to tell me a...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2019
9 points

You’re not the only one who thinks that. It’s awkward sitting there watching a show or movie with people around you and a character with a stutter begins to be joke of the scene. Sometimes I think it’...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2019
7 points

Come the fuck on, don't go there. You stutter. Tha'ts fine. Most people don't give a shit after high school, and if they do they're probably fuckheads to begin with. Yes it sucks, but there's tons...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2019
2 points

When I was at your age, my parents never talked about my stuttering because they believed doing so would only make me even more aware of my stuttering, thus it would make my stuttering get worse. So ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Preparation & RehearsalHope & MotivationIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 17, 2019
1 points

No. Blindness and deafness are disabilities, but stuttering is not. One important characteristic of a disability is that it is able to exist permanently. We don't always stutter or not as much, for ...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityIdentity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / Neurodiversity
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2019
3 points

Im gonna buy a t-shirt saying #st-st-stutter. Totally gonna wear that at work....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 15, 2019
1 points

If you felt this much judgement just from the interview, either you are panicking and read their reactions wrong (happens! We are hypercritical of ourselves and assume that others are as well) or you ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 14, 2019
3 points

it has been a 'meh' recently. i just don't care anymore. i'am 20 years old , second year in university. there is a presentation in one of the subjects every student has to do it , i'am not , probably ...

School & WorkEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
School & Academic LifeAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2019
6 points

Congrats buddy! The key event here is that you FORGOT. you FORGOT that you even wanted to talk or stutter. you just did it. just like we do other things, we just do it!...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 13, 2019
4 points

Exactly, for once my stutter prepared me for a social situation!...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2019
1 points

Isn’t a bi polar person just a normal person that occasionally has mood swings? Isn’t a depressed person just a normal person with uncontrollable sadness? Isn’t a person with a rheumatoid arthriti...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionMedicalization / NeurodiversityStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterNov 12, 2019
1 points

Thats a really helpful comment suggesting how the person wasted its life into investing into a profession he can't handle because of his disability. Its not like a guy can out of the sudden change a ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception